Do men with good manners still exist? (Page 2)
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Yes we are the ones that you women look right at and never see we live alone in a big house and people call us weirdo cuz we have to many cats we let our dogs sit in the front seat of our new truck we finish last but your already off with the next asshole abuser that convinced you that im a loser
Of course we do, but as we grow older we realize why bother? Being respectful of course is something we should always be but since you posted that photo I feel your saying that do men who do stuff for women like holding doors and stuff still exist? I don't know
One of the cool things about life we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do look at all the people on here look how many people choose to be good for how many people choose to be assholes
YES ! This sounds so cliche but you've got to be more open, and give others the chance. I am so fortunate to have found a great man that opens not just the door before I walk in but all doors, he isn't someone that would have struck me in passing, but we met bc of a mutual friend, however he is far greater than any man I could have dreamed up for myself ! He is truly a good man, had some baggage, but he is good to me.. amazing to me actually!
For the right lady I’d do it all. Most women will take this kind of behaviour as an opportunity to walk all over you though. Worse yet, they’ll see it as you admitting you are below them and look elsewhere for a man who treats them worse, indicating that he is above her, and she loves to try and change him
Should we not? Its a sign of respect, but if you girls do not even want that, then cool!
It in no way indicates that we are dominant or you are dependent on us. It is just a plain sign of acknowledgement and respect.
You can't be strong an independant but at the same time not be able to open doors. Opening doors is a thing we choose to do. Not a thing expected of us. If ur taking equal rights u should also take equal responsibility.
I think they do, but they are a bit difficult to find compared to the ones who don't have good manners.
Yeah of course! And that's just a meme, why are you taking it seriously? It's not important to open door for random women they don't even know.
Unless you're a valet or doorman
@Guardian45 Correct
Yes we do, my girlfriend knows not to touch doors any and everywhere we visit! She will stand at the door if she gets to it before I do. Also, I’ve had a conversation with my daughter and have told her if a guy doesn’t open the door, you don’t get in the car or walk into an establishment.
I don’t consider opening a door for me as good manners… lol. I’m an adult and opening a door ain’t that difficult so I can do it myself..
My thoughts exactly. I mean holding a door that closes is fine with me though
Of course there are, The reason why don't see it much is because most Girls do not appreciate it that much and because us Guys would usually get ignored if we did do it for a Girl and you Girls are more Attracted to the Confident jerk instead of Nice Shy Guy.
Of course. All my friends have good manners. Sounds like you are looking for love in all the wrong places.
It depends on how you treat them. A lot of people have manners, but they don't pull them out for everyone.
Men rise to the level of the standards women set. No standards no rising. The key to success here is to have standards and not settle.
What the problem is that many women like this are one sided. It really goes both ways. Men should also have standards and everyone's standards for dating is not the same which is why we even date in the first place.
To get to know someone better and see if our standards and our wants and needs are the same or not. No hard feelings if they aren't some people are better off as friends and some not even that frankly.
But you see my point.
If women become one sided meaning a man must do everything and get nothing in return just so he can have a girlfriend. What is he getting out of it? Nothing.
It goes the same way. Women mostly rise to the standards men set... Whcih can also be a bit much.
Some people try and impress as many people as they can... Which you can't do what is attractive to some is a turn off for others and for others totally indifferent.
My husband is an absolute gentleman. Yes they do still exist
For like 6 months then they switch up once you've committed.
Rarely do men have the opportunity to open a door for a Lady, there are very few left... Women always push their way to the front of the line... The "Me 1st" attitude has made 99% of them very unappealing.
No. They're called sexists these days. So i guess it goes both ways. If women remember how to behave again, then men can turn back to how they were.
Yes we exist
Why you haven't found one of us yet is a bigger mystery