My boyfriend laughed at me when he saw me with my hair up. ?

[Anonymous]

I been with my boyfriend for 10years he has never seen me with my hair up because I don’t like it. I always felt ugly and insecure about my forehead. We booked a hotel for the weekend and I decided to take a morning shower , I put my hair up and put my shower cap when I was done with that my boyfriend opens the door but I tried to closed it but it was to late , he started to laugh at me and i said “ what , I’m putting my shower cap. “ with a giggle tone but also embarrassed. He was laughing so much because I guess I looked funny to him and he never seen me with my hair up. I closed the door and I kind of heard him say “ I never seen you like that “ I honestly wanted to cry because I feel so ugly wearing my hair up and my forehead has gotten bigger because my hairline is receding 🙁. I continue to shower and was thinking if he was going say anything.
i got out and he didn’t even look at me I asked him if he was going shower , he said yes but never mentioned anything. I guess he thought he hurt my feelings. Honestly I don't know where I was going with this post I just wanted to express my feeling somewhere ☹️

[Guy13]

You want to make a boyfriend laugh go on YouTube and find some video pic or something of an older lady in shower cap with text “I’ll see you at home soon” ♨️ “Damn, I’m with a woman who has sense of humor” would be my thoughts. “The Shower Cap” could develop a “thing” of its own 🎉

just how I work.-your decision

[Asker]

He actually saw me with out the shower cap so he was laughing because he saw me with my hair up 😅

[Guy13]

Gotcha. Shower cap covers it up, right? You can’t see through a shower cap, right 😉. Fashion Trend…

[Anonymous]

I see this as a great big redflag. He knows your weakness and is using it against you in such a way that it can go almost undetectable. I've seen this behavior before and it makes me wonder how many other little areas of the relationship follow the same pattern over the years slowly chipping away at your self esteem. If your hairline is receding, try a little oxonated olive oil on the area and massage all over after you've washed it. It stinks due to the ozone / ozygen content but can stimulate growth.

[Rania05]

Wow, I admire you had been able to avoid it for 10 years 🙏

He probably didn't put much thought on it, it would be flustering if you're the only one worrying about it but after so much time of your relationship your boyfriend is bound to have seen your embarrassing sides it's just a matter of time if your relationship continue, and I'm not saying to scare but to be relieved instead the more he seen the more confident of your relation, it's like a selective cure of your insecurities.