Help boyfriend is ignoring me & im crying depressed?

[Anonymous]

I miss boyfriend a lot & Monday we texted & he had said maybe he would stop by to visit me after work this wk. but not sure yet & then after that he became silent distant. He works full time & yesterday night we texted but he just said he was home from work had headache saw movie then would shower & gn. I had sent a flirty vid but he ignore it today don’t flirt or reply. Whenever he don’t plan meet me or make plans with friends he avoid talk to me or flirt. Still it makes me stressed cry & drives me crazy. 😓 daily I’m alone look single tired of being alone eat sleep work be alone while all girls in this app will show off say I live with boyfriend see him daily. I have no girl to understand me genuinely and relate to me 😓 I’m depressed

[Anonymous]

That’s not a boyfriend, especially if you’re crying and depressed over him. If you already struggle with mental health issues, or have a hard time being alone then you are better of being single so that you can be happy on your own. Don’t be codependent of a partner that you tolerate such a shitty man.

[Asker]

What is a boyfriend then? We always text daily meet weekly on our day off, sometimes we meet 2x a wk like he’ll come visit after work

[Opinion Owner]

A boyfriend is someone who makes you feel loved, valued, cherished, and respected. Although you do the things you listed, what stands out to me most are the things in your initial post that bring you so much sadness and depression. You can text and see anyone everyday, but your boyfriend is supposed to fulfill the needs that you don’t depend on from your peers and loved ones.

[kylee2437]

Ahhh I’ve been through this before. They think that living together is enough without quality time. You should sit down and talk to him about it. Just because he is living with you, doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be giving you time and attention.

[Asker]

We don’t live together

[Asker]

I’m sad cuz I miss him n he’s ignoring me being silent as we won’t meet

[kylee2437]

Ahhh I must’ve read something wrong, but I advise you dump him. Anytime I hear someone say “I feel more single than in a relationship” what’s the point? Live your life single where you don’t need to stress on if your suppose to be boyfriend is going to answer you today.

[Asker]

I don't know if this is how guys act but wen we’ll meet he texts a lot daily , if we won’t meet he don’t flirt silent aviod me don’t talk

[Asker]

I don't know y girls instead of giving help they jsut say dump him. Like as if it’s easy get new guy like buying $1 bread. Ik this guy few years he’s not a random dude I met yesterday he’s my partner.

[kylee2437]

Because why settle for someone that isn’t even caring about you. You lack basic self respect for yourself, I am sorry.

[Anonymous]

Then ignore his lame ass.

[Asker]

I don’t feel good 😓

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, I understand.