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I don’t ask women how much they weigh because I can see if I’m attracted to them before I even talk to them so their weight isn’t going to make a difference but I also believe that if a woman is attracted to a guy their height shouldn’t make a difference if they can see them before they talk to them
‘I only date tall guys’? That ain’t as biased as having a preference on weight for women? I’m 168cm, or 5’6”. Won’t Y’all date me, since I’m too short? Women tend to be overcautious on their weight. I reckon that they hold the notion that skinny is pretty or whatever. I get offended when said I’m ‘so skinny.’ However, ladies, if You want to lose weight, go to the Moon, and You’ll lose 80% of Your weight. Problem solved!
Good question. I'll gladly tell people I'm always between 140 and 150
I'm 6' All fat women are disqualified. I never had casual sex. All promiscuous women are disqualified. That's fair.
Because women can have high standards (which they now call "bare minimum") but men have to accept everything, any type of body, and flaw, any attitude.
Truth is, those women don't want a boyfriend. They want a lapdog. A submissive and obedient guy who will accept anything, even the unacceptable.
I know a lot of men with crazy high standards that have to do with the 1 to 10 rating or something as random as hair colour or clothing.
I don't think that you're being objective. Are there women out there using men? Sure. Are there men out there using women. Equally certain.
Assuming every member of a gender is this or that is a useless generalistion. It would contribute more to share some experiences.
But that's just my opinion and a suggestion. You're entitled to yours, and that's what this app is about.
I don't think people understand how depressing this attitude is for guys who are genuinely short and there's nothing they can do about it. Women say short men should just die and sadly, that's what actually happens and when they do, it's alone.
I guess I just had bad luck. I'm 5'7 and one of the most cruel narcissistic man whom I ever crossed path with was just 5'8... only an inch taller than me.
He used to brag about everything about himself, as if he wasn't happy or something. Everything was about how great sex was with his ex boyfriend, how he once dated a very tall girl, how he made friends easily, how he's so great and almost perfect, etc.
Because you have to ask before 🤡. It's in poor taste to ask immediately after. Like when someone says women suffer and your immediate response is "men suffer too" but you never mention it in any other context.
Those are hilarious, though honestly--a bit too funny to be believable as real.
I believe they are real. I have chatted with worse women than that
That's insane! lol! The women you've chatted with--where did you find them and what did they say?
@update: I think for the most part, you'll find that guys don't really care much at ALL about a girl's height. Most of us can find girls hot from 5'0 to 6' and probably even outside that range.
These screenshots made my day lmao
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because sometimes women ask how tall are you because theyre curious (not always) but not all of them are actually really nice... but sometimes tall women weigh a lot (bmi) ie i'm 5'7 but 57kgs so it might be an insecurity thing
Even if they're "just curious" it doesn't change the fact women think men shouldn't be allowed to ask them certain questions.
I, for example, don't like being short, so try to never mention it on a dating profile. And if they ask me, I'll tell them I'd rather not say. And if they don't drop it after that and still keep asking (which is clearly rude), then I'll start asking them "personal" questions, like "how many dicks have you had in you?" since they clearly don't know what boundaries are or how to respect them.
I believe in Gender Equality.
Those women ask because they love tall guys. Just read the convos above.
A man can ask her weight because he is curious if she is attractive or not
You ask personal questions you should expect them in return. Respect is earned, even in the beginning with basic Q’s.
These are funny.. But eh just go old double standards.. Nothing new..
why is it more socially acceptable for 40 yr old men to be dating 18 yr old girls than a 40 yr old woman dating a 18 yr old boy?
why do men get to sleep around and get praised for it? a woman sleeps around and she gets shamed a whore.
Do you think praising a woman for sleeping around makes sense? Is that an accomplishment?
@marish01
if you want equality, why do you praise men for sleeping around while shaming women for doing the same thing?
First of all I don't praise.
Second of all answer my question
@marish01
you didn't answer my question.
why is it more socially acceptable for 40 yr old men to be dating 18 yr old girls than a 40 yr old woman dating a 18 yr old boy?
@marish01
you don't want to marry a virgin man but you shame women who are non virgins.
(Just to step in a little) Whether it's an accomplishment or not, the gender shouldn't weigh in the decision.)
@MAC1983
fact of the matter is, men judge women off of age and looks far more than women judge men on height.
@MAC1983
why can't I only date men at least 5'10'' or taller if men only want to date women 10 years younger?
@Haha456
I don't understand - of course you can have your own preferences. I wrote nothing about that. 🤷🏻♂️
However, you're generalising too. Not all men want women a decade younger than them. (If in doubt, watch the film "Mrs. Robinson". 😇)
@MAC1983
if you've been on GAG long enough, you won't find an end to the number of men who talk down on older women.
There's a problem with trolls on GaG, but a lot of normal people too. Ignore, and report trolls, if you want.
There are a lot of cool older women and men here too, by the way.
Ignore the stupid and don't take things too personally. Specially when they generalise...
@MAC1983
thanks for being the first decent guy on here.
@haha456 because. A 40 year old woman has no intentions to look after an 18 year old boy long term. She cannot manage him spiritually, psychologically or emotionally.
What can you offer him long term? Safety? Men embrace danger. Financial support? A man is one who stands on his own two feet.
It's not society stopping young boys from being with older women. Young boys are the ones running away once they get a little sense.
Apologies for the bluntness of my realist argument
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
Can I lastly sympathize with the emotional and psychological implications of men's choice. I can only imagine as an older woman how hurtful it must feel to no longer feel valuable in the eyes of men. Most men is not all men. MyTake about the 3 traits of a valuable woman is all you need to set you apart from women in your age bracket.
However, one cannot change what is human nature. A woman will always want a strong confident guy who is a good communicator. Most women want a provider. The majority of men understand and accept this evolutionary nature. I think it would serve you best to not hate human biology but take responsibility for your own attractivity to the opposite sex. The river Nile will always flow one way, no point trying to fight the flow.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
@DoctorSex
So what? A 40 yr old man dating an 18 yr old girl is like dating a child. What does a 40 yr old man have in common with a 18 yr old kid who still lives with mommy and daddy and has never held a job?
Its not about what men see older women as less valuable. Its more about what you see as valuable versus what you can get. As men age, they get less attractive, less valuable, girls call them more "creepy". Just because a 45 yr old man wants a 21 yr old girl , it doesn't mean he can get her. By the time i am 45 years old, i wouldn't be attracted to 50 yr old men either but its unlikely i can score a 30 yr old at that age
And not all men are shallow perverts looking to date kids they have absolutely nothing in common with. They want a woman with a certain level of maturity and life experience they can relate with.
@DoctorSex
[However, one cannot change what is human nature. A woman will always want a strong confident guy who is a good communicator. Most women want a provider. The majority of men understand and accept this evolutionary nature. I think it would serve you best to not hate human biology but take responsibility for your own attractivity to the opposite sex. The river Nile will always flow one way, no point trying to fight the flow.]
It really does not prove why a 40 yr old woman should be shamed for dating an 18 yr old boy. Love and romance defeats financial stability or age.
@DoctorSex
You keep talking about older women not being valuable, what makes you think i am more attracted to men as they get fatter, wrinklier , saggier, lose hair , saggy balls, erectile dysfunction.
You need to keep in mind, your value declines as you age too.
@haha456 lol my dear, you didn't even try to tackle any of my points though I layed them out clearly. Deflecting isn't a Respectful way to dialogue so god bless you.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
I don't shame women for being non virgins.
Non virgins are bot necessarily sluts
@DoctorSex
I have tackled your points. And its pretty obvious your points are just weak excuses and can't prove why its 40 yr old women should not be dating younger men. And quite honestly, it seems like you're jealous about older women wanting younger men.
@DoctorSex
There was nothing respectful about your dialogue either. Making sexist excuses about how older women should be shamed for wanting younger men. Attraction is attraction.
@marish01
I spoke to you on here long time ago. There was a point you told me you prefer to marry a non virgin while you shamed non virgin women
But i dont give a shit about your question. Because if men only want to date women 15 years younger, why can't i date a guy at least 5'10? People want what they want.
Date. No one stops you.
I might have shamed sluts not non virgin women who are in committed relationships.
@marish01
I have only seen you shame women on here but not men. I have known you long time
@haha456 oh my dear, one thing I have to credit @marish01 for, is that she doesn't shame or insult simply one gender. She believes in equality in this regards.
She reminds me more of the mean girl in school that most women speak of being bullied by whilst growing up.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
@DoctorSex
marish is a misogynist. And the only reason why you're agreeing with her is because you also are a misogynist.
None of the excuses you have listed justifies why 40 yr old women should be shamed for wanting to date a younger man. You're just jealous so you made up some lame excuses. There is no justification for anything you've said. Its just pure bias and sexism.
Funny thing is short guys can't change their height while these landwhales can change their weight whenever they want but chose not to because of LAZINESS and feminist
Feminist promote being landwhale
Who says we are not allowed?
Because women, most women any way, only want equality when it benefits them.. In other words it's only OK when women do it. This is according to feminism.
I mean why can't they just ask for my height in return or something lol? If they're dating me I'd see no problem with telling them my weight.
Because guys don't care about height. We care about weight/body type, women care about height.
@MCheetah Alright.
They can't ask because it isn't comparable.
Women can change their weight.
Men can't change their height.
It's a better to ask what size their tits are.
Probably because it's intended to be insulting...
More intended to point out that two can play at the shallow game.. "You want a certain height, I want to certain weight"..
Did you not see how women insulted men for being short?
@Subarugirl you like being this don't you lol
actually I see that more from men than women, most women couldn't care less about a guys height as long as he's taller than she is.
Subarugirl most women shame short men about their height all the time which they have no control over... and those same women don't like being shamed for their weight which they can change easily... double standards
It is.
@Dnc_21 do you have an example of that, because the majority of what I've seen here is primarily men just being insecure about their height, take mcheetah for example, he's 5'11 and has managed to convince himself that he's short and that's why women don't like him when really he just has a horrible attitude.
Go on social media you'll see what I'm talking about
@Dnc_21 I am on social media, and most of what I see about height is women complaining about men lying about their height and men complaining about their height...
Yeah right...
@Dnc_21 if you are going to completely disregard the answers that I give you... then maybe you should stop asking questions you don't really want the answers to.
It's just deja vu... I just remembered there's no point arguing with you... my bad
@Dnc_21 not if you keep crying false news every time someone says something you don't agree with.
Fake news? Check TikTok and Instagram... Anyway, I told you to dm me last time around to provide links that support my claims and unsurprisingly you didn't... I can't share links or dm people on here because I'm only level 1
@Subarugirl Yeah that's pretty true in real life.. Women are much more forgiving in real life than online..
@JDavid25 its kind of funny when guys use tinder as an example of how things work in real life.
True tinder is definitely not real life.. Unfortunately most dating these days are tried through online.. Not many guys go up to women anymore to ask for a date.. Online is pretty treacherous, and kinda depressing too..
@JDavid25 lol that’s like using pornhub to explain what real sex is like …
That's actually a decent example.. It's an entirely different reality.. It makes the dating scene look pretty bad for everybody (men and women).. Most
@JDavid25 don't agree with her she uses books to relate real ife situations too bro so that's pretty hypocritical of her, to make such a statement.
Dear most women have a fetish for 6feet plus tall men... I don't know why
@Fuentes Yeah, I can see the p0rn statement being a fairly decent one but at the same time kinda off.. Plus she was in a relationship before tinder took off..
@JDavid25 bruh she 25 no she wasn't
@Fuented She's deluded and so biased, never admits she's wrong
@Dnc_21 exactly lol I think she likes it. I'm starting to think she's a troll.
@Dnc_21 I like how she threw Mccheetah under the bus and pointed out his “horrible attitude” completely out of left field. Classy.
@Agagagagaga lol if you wanted classy you wouldn’t be here or on tinder lol
Why did you bring up Mccheetah when he wasn’t even in the discussion?
Because you wanted to talk shit on him.
You’re not the good person you think you are.
@Agagagagaga she brought up @mcheetah cause she doesn't have anyone else to compare in her life because she uses books to make a real life comparison so her only example is a guy she doesn't even know irl to make a comparison. To try to prove her point but it's still not a real life comparison. I'm sure he maybe has her blocked and she's upset by that.
@Agagagagaga it was just an example. He's very outspoken about it which you can see for yourself
It seems like everyone agrees that Subarugirl is full of shit...
He must be short because if he wasn't he wouldn't care less
@Sarahplus2 lol Im inclined to agree with that assumption
@Subarugirl, isn't that very hypocritical of you to agree with mere assumptions and ask for decisive evidence when things don't fit your own narrative? Oh my...
@Dnc_21 no not really because I already assumed you were shorter than me, and statistically there is a good chance that its true.
Now you're going to resort to height shaming (by which you just proved my point ) because you can't come up with decent arguments anymore...'oh I'm taller than you ' blabla grow up kiddo... I'm 6'1 how can you statistically be taller than me? Desperate loser
@Dnc_21 okay calm down. I’m not shaming. I’m like 6ft and a half so I’m taller than almost everyone, it’s not an insult. If I wanted to shame you I wouldn’t use height as a way to do it lol
What is your leg inseam length?
Depending on the brand 34inches give or take
Why did you not play for the WNBA?
@Fuentes Because I was a swimmer, and preferred volleyball to basketball...
Hmm you could have done both, and got rich So would you race against Lia Thomas?
@Fuentes I had no desire to become a professional athlete. I had more important things to do.
I blocked him so I don't see his insults. He asks a question and then cuts everyone down who disagrees. Probably something to do with real life
They are just mad that men prefer younger, hotter, and fun-to-be-with women instead of these older and/or uglier, and boring women who get offended when men have preferences, let alone standards.