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Should girls who order more than one alcoholic drink on a restaurant date knowing the guy is paying raise red flags? (Page 2)
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Damn, I would hope I get more than one drink on a date. 🍸
Lol, no.
Don't take women out if you're cheap. Or discuss your budget before hand. Or, go Dutch and she'll buy herself as many drinks as she wants.
Given your question, I totally understand why she needed more than one drink to tolerate you.
Well that’s selfish. I really don’t make that much money.
Then go Dutch.
Split the bill. You pay for your food, she pays for hers.
That's not selfish, that's just fair.
If you don't earn enough to take a woman out on your dime, don't offer that. Offer to split instead.
It's selfish you think someone else should limit themselves because you're too cheap or too lazy to budget.
I do have a fear if I take her to a nice place and get ghosted after I do, then there was no thought about me which would have made her the selfish one. I’m just trying to see things from my perspective too. I’m glad I’m seeing so many different opinions on this.
@lonelyheartedsoul Lol, women are inherently selfish which is why you got the response you did. This is another reason why you should never take dating advice from women. Regarding your question it only raises a red flag if you dont set boundaries or standards. If you dont want to pay to take a women out then dont pay for her. And no you dont have to tell her ahead of time or discuss a budget. Its your money and time use it how you see fit its really that simple. If a women really likes you she's going to do whatever she can to spend time w/ you.
Don't take women out at all. They're too entitled these days... think they're owed the moon just because they have boobs.
@hahahmm It’s a western woman thing mostly lol
@lonelyheartedsoul True
I think the guideline is that it's normal as long as both people are having a similar number of drinks. If he orders one beer and she keeps ordering drinks, that's odd. But if they're both going for round 2+, no problems there
Lol yes. Alcoholics and alcohol is something to stay far away from
If it's a first date, if she doesn't offer to pay half the bill that's a huge red flag to me. No woman today should expect the man to pay for her share of the date. If she doesn't offer to pay half and she orders two drinks, that's an even bigger red flag. She won't be getting a second date.
I never expect someone to pay for me. I'll buy whatever I want and if that's an issue then I'll pay for myself. I'm not limiting myself just bc you're on a budget🤷♀️
It depends. How many is "more than one"? And can she handle them? Myself I'd be more suspicious of a girl who handles 5 drinks well than one who handles 1 poorly...
If she gets drunk in a first date it could be a red flag but two glasses of wine are usually fine.
This is like asking, "So I'm on my boat at sea and some pirates came along. I offered them booze & they took a lot. Is this strange?"
ROFL. I don't drink. But I look at this question simply
Dimbos who think more than one glass or bottle is okay... should drink till they're falling over. That way the guy knows your real personality & that you're a waste of time.
It's 2022, not 1922. Only gold diggers expect a man to pay. If you respect a woman you'll let her pay her way.
You should be more concerned about her alcoholism than her gold diggerism in that case.
I don't think two to three drinks during a couple hour dinner date is unusual at all. In fact that would be pretty normal from my experience.
I always thought drinking more than one mixed drink meant "Green light on the sex tonight." Maybe I'm old-fashioned.
It depends on the length of the date right, you can expect her to have as many as you.
It's likely I'm having another too, and in this world it's not a guy that pays for everything.
Maybe he wants her to drink knowing drunk girls get a little loose.
I don't understand the question what do you mean?
If your date makes you spend extra money on multiple drinks that wouldn’t feel wrong to you?
Personally I just take one and for for him to ask me if I want another I wouldn't take a second one if he didn't asked me if I wanted one, it would be rude.
You’re just cheap and can’t afford to date women.
@Sunfresh You’re a bimbo. Some drinks are over 10 dollars you know. I’m not just talking about beer. If that’s your attitude then I’m happy to avoid a girl like you.
I don’t even drink. You frame your question like a CHEAP O would whose bean counting during the whole date. Oh The feeling is mutual by the way
See the answers the women are giving? They clearly don't care that and are definitely out of touch with a mature approach
Making a girl drunk is some kind of investment :D
Where's the problem?