BE DIRECT PLSSS. istg if one more person comes up to me and initiates an endless conversation of awkward small talk, i will kill myself 😁 but seriously, if you have something to say, say it. and please exclude all of the unnecessary banter jammed into the conversation.
"hey," "hi," "how are you?," "meh," "yeah, me too," ...∞ vs "hey i think ur really cute, can i get your number?" "sure :) it's..."
I'm more of an introvert you could say. I. Hate. Small talk. Get to the point and you'll get a quick and clear reaction back. Choose small talk and I'll send that introvert meme.
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BE DIRECT PLSSS. istg if one more person comes up to me and initiates an endless conversation of awkward small talk, i will kill myself 😁 but seriously, if you have something to say, say it. and please exclude all of the unnecessary banter jammed into the conversation.
"hey," "hi," "how are you?," "meh," "yeah, me too," ...∞ vs "hey i think ur really cute, can i get your number?" "sure :) it's..."
I sincerely don’t think there’s a way to approach me without making me melting like snow under the sun because of embarrassment.
I don't want to be approached. Therefore you can leave me the fuck alone and I will ignore you 😊
I'd rather they don't approach me at all. Their time would be better spent on somebody actually worth it.
What if they’re genuinely interested?
They can do better
So you’re just gonna push a potential good partner away?
For their sake, they'd be better of with someone who's worth their time.
Aww sweetheart don’t think that.. you’re worth it tho.
Thank you, but trust me I'm not dating material 🤣
🤣 ok 👌
How do you feel insecure if a hot girl/guy is making moves on you?
I'm more of an introvert you could say. I. Hate. Small talk. Get to the point and you'll get a quick and clear reaction back. Choose small talk and I'll send that introvert meme.
Very directly but in a classy way, coz I'm both shy and dense.
What is classy way? Pose explain ma'am.
@savagewolf22 politely and respectfully.
Very interesting..
Is that you in your profile?
@savagewolf22 yes but it's like 15kgs ago.
Seriously?
@savagewolf22 yeah. I got some chonks.
Baby did anyone tell you that you're gorgeous? 😘
What zolly said, but also calm. I don't like it when someone's loud
I'm asshole. I'm fuckboy.
Should I not comment on this intelligent post? 😜
Behave
Ouch sorry bud...
Wanna kick my ass? 😜
Gladly 😝
Bud's nice way to touch my ass... no? 😜
As a shy person, I like it when people approach me. It is a lot easier to be in a conversation when someone else starts it.
easy 😏
Usually I would be intimidated and I wouldn't know how to react because it never happens.
Being approached alone, not invaded by 5 people. Starting a chill conversation, not too pushy
If someone makes a move, I'll be shocked and thank them for wasting their time with me.
They can tell me they just wanna smash lol
I don’t want women approaching me. I will approach them if I see it fit
I personally prefer people to simply say that they are interested and then ask for number.
Just basically be yourself. Where a girl makes the first move, I just go with the flow.
Interesting question,
If we dnt meet at a party or club when am high, you contact a friend to contact a friend to contact a friend of mine, 😂
Any excuse to intimidate trump and get him to drop out.