What are some good ways to cure biphobia?

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remember the maneater girl in neighbourhood that dated my brother's best friend and my brother had secret feelings for her? and how i said she might be homo and that's why he hates her? turns out I'm right. she's not just a lesbian, she's bi! now it makes sense for her to check out my thighs every time she sees me! as a bisexual person, this is a pride moment. also, she's not a s1ut, she's a maneater, likes to date multiple people (she's friggin 15) but my conservative brother is pretty disgusted by it and calls her sexuality dark secret, which is very irritating. I am regretting the "no secrets between siblings" rule lol.  so how do i tell them to just leave the girl alone? i kinda feel protective about her, whether she's bi or not, she's a minor.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

When I was younger, I used to be misinformed about the LGBTQ community. My family is rather conservative and I was told that homosexual relationships were abnormal and should be frowned upon. When I was around 14 or 15, I was a tad more open minded and began educating myself about the community and began accepting them. I have only about 6 friends and out of them, 2 are bi, one is aroace and the other is lesbian. When they came out to me, I was very happy for them and now that I look back, I understand how foolish and ignorant I was as a kid. So, my point is, teenagers are rather impressionable. Their views can be changed with proper guidance and care.

You have to have a chat with him about this. Does he know that you are bisexual? Judging or hating someone because of their sexuality is very very wrong and he has to know that. You are his sister and it is your responsibility to teach him what is right and what is wrong. Do not be rude or try to coerce him into changing his view. He is obviously heavily influenced by his peers and conservative programs on the television. Honestly, it is up to him if he wants to change his view or not. You can only lead a horse to water, you cannot make the animal drink it.

letuswaltzforthedead · Accepted Answer

I would talk to him. Sexuality isn't something you can really control, you probably already know that you're straight as a kid the same way you would know if you're gay or bisexual. Its honestly disappointing to hear so many bad things about bi people, even on G@G. Although, I am surprised she's poly.

DavidRaul · Accepted Answer

Well there isn't a problem with being bisexual and gay. He needs to understand that. He needs to change his mindset and be more comfortable with people who have different sexualities. Give him a good talk on this talk. He knows you are bisexual so i don't it would be hard for him to understand. But the only thing that i dislike about that lady is that she date multiple people. I don't have a say in it. she's 15 and exploring and its her choice.

tony_baloney · Accepted Answer

It's a little concerning that she's so active so young, but orientation dont matter. At least the girls won't get her pregnant lmao. But also, this isn't your kid or your family so this isn't really your problem to try to fix

jengeorge26 · Answer

I hope you get an answer, I am not the right person to ask since I am bi- and don’t want to advise you about that for your 15 year old brother

shortster · Answer

You can't cure hatred in others. You can only demonstrate love and compassion to them and hope it catches on with them.

exitseven · Answer

I would suggest a threesome with two bi females.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You can't. Haters will always hate, it is the way they were raised.

mr4435669 · Answer

Since I was a child I have been homophobic and nobody ever asked me to indoctrinate.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Do what feels right for you

TallAnon · Answer

I don't see how she's your problem to care about.

anton_dee · Answer

Why do u wanna cure it? Is it such a bad thing?

abhi44444 · Answer

It would you

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