From a relationship standpoint I don’t find that acceptable, he can rationalize it however he likes but he didn’t really bother to take your feelings into consideration.
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Yeah I don’t either but I’m trying to improve on my trust issues
Listen to your intuition girl, if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him and your ok with it then thats all you. On the other hand, if you're not ready for him to do that then out of respect he should understand that.
The guy who is not yet your boyfriend wants to do something with his friend, and even asked you for permission, even though he wouldn't have need to do it since he's not your boyfriend yet.
He didn't invite you. RED FLAG. Dump him. Men and women alone together NO. for example, personal trainers bang all their female clients. Married women too.
Yeah move on, he's a liar. Nobody on the planet is "just friends" with an ex, they're keeping their options open and setting up affairs to live a double life
That's bullshit, get rid of that bum. If he wants to be your boyfriend, he should take your feelings into consideration. There is no reason he should be going on Disneyland dates with his ex.
Then maybe you can get an invite as well. Don't know how long you've been seeing this guy but at some point he'd have to introduce you to his friends. ⁰
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From a relationship standpoint I don’t find that acceptable, he can rationalize it however he likes but he didn’t really bother to take your feelings into consideration.
Yeah I don’t either but I’m trying to improve on my trust issues
Listen to your intuition girl, if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him and your ok with it then thats all you. On the other hand, if you're not ready for him to do that then out of respect he should understand that.
Takes trips with the ex?
Just move on my love, don't even waste your time with someone with crazy boundaries like that. You'd be miserable with them.
is it like this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJF6EpLGFCIThe guy who is not yet your boyfriend wants to do something with his friend, and even asked you for permission, even though he wouldn't have need to do it since he's not your boyfriend yet.
Honestly even if it's as friend I wouldn't agree in your place if they aren't going with another group of friends
Female intuition is a serious thing, that women tend to neglect, if you feel that something is off then it most definitely is
It's funny when girls like you think being a slut is gonna get them far, then wonder why the wonderful man they found isn't a loyal one
And don't try to gaslight me, I've seen your other posts
Nah. I wouldn't feel comfortable, lol.
I know what I would be thinking if I were the ex.. so no. Lol.
He's trying to get back with her; maybe not for a real relationship. But, at least, friends with benefits.
Yeah bc he refers to her as an ex
Do they have kids together? Sometimes ex's do that just for the kids. If not, that's weird as fuck.
They don’t
I'd tell him to hit the road. It seems like you could be dealing with her in his life for some time and that's not a recipe for a good relationship.
He didn't invite you. RED FLAG. Dump him. Men and women alone together NO. for example, personal trainers bang all their female clients. Married women too.
Yeah move on, he's a liar. Nobody on the planet is "just friends" with an ex, they're keeping their options open and setting up affairs to live a double life
That's bullshit, get rid of that bum. If he wants to be your boyfriend, he should take your feelings into consideration. There is no reason he should be going on Disneyland dates with his ex.
People who stay friends with exes are mad suspect and I don't deal with them.
Is it part of a group trip where his ex is also there or is it Just them two?
Just two of them
Wait hold up sorry other friends too
Then maybe you can get an invite as well. Don't know how long you've been seeing this guy but at some point he'd have to introduce you to his friends. ⁰
Ask him if it's okay if you hang out with a few of your exes while he's away.
He’s not your boyfriend yet. You just said it. He can do what he wants.
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You're TALKING to him but consider him a boyfriend?
It is not your decision or business.
If it bothers you, then move on.