Guy I’m talking to goes to Disney with ex? What do you think?

Question

The guy that is about to me my boyfriend asks me if it is okay to go to Disney with his ex girl friend. He assured me that they’re just friends but it’s hard to believe…

Shayyyy1 · Accepted Answer

Girl

I said it was okay to bring his female friend to see a dig breeder to get a puppy. The digs weren't the only thing getting breed for that 2 day trip. Two days no message no contact , I texted him once everyday as to not bother him you now be cobsider I texted this dude good morning and good night and his response when he finally got back 'why are you so persistent and clingy?'

I just dipped after that, Blocked him on everything, hope he's living his best life cause I am, I took that study abroad opportunity I was planning on changing because he was going to a uni in New York, now I'm enjoying Europe to the fullest.

Moral of the story say no don't think about how you'll make him annoyed or mad or hurt his feelings because you don't trust him. When what u don't trust is his ex, y tf she asking him to go to Disney they ain't together. Plain out sat 'NO' it's quite simple and if he gets mad that ur being bitchy or paranoid and nothing will happen if he insists when he sees how much it'll hurt and bother u the whole they there for. Dump him you'll probably be dodging a nuke. Don't like sleep over him. Plenty of life in the sea.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Wouldn’t you want your boyfriend to take you on vacation?
Did he ask you to go?

is he excited about having you as a girlfriend?

The answer is no… not that I am mot uncomfortable… that’s just too nice of a word.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

This is my belief if I have an ex and she asked me to go to Disneyland and if I was her good friend I would probably go maybe maybe that's a big Maybe now if I had an ex and I started dating somebody that I really liked and my ex asked me to go to Disneyland what's going to be more important to me it's going to be the girl that I just started dating because I want her to respect me I want her to trust me and I don't think it's right to allow the girl I'm going to start dating to have crazy thoughts of what could happen that is not cool I think what he did to you is wrong I think he should have said no because he's supposedly in love with you

So I look at it like this if he's going to do something like that and push you off to the side what's going to happen when she says Okay I want you back he's going to do the same thing he'll walk away from you I personally think you can find better I think that there are better guys out there for you because I guarantee you this guy is not going to last he's selfish and he's only thinking of himself

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

hmm... I could absolutely go anywhere with my ex-girlfriend because we're friends now, and have been friends for a long time as well and it would not be a problem

however, I don't think I would do that in the middle of me thinking to get in a relationship with a girl to be my girlfriend

I don't think it is the best timing, even if were not to do anything wrong... it does not send the right message, it would make the future girlfriend to have many UNNECESSARY thoughts and ideas

MrOracle · Answer

No guy who was serious about a girl would go on a trip with his ex, unless perhaps they had kids together and it was for their sake.

This is why people generally make a clean break once a relationship runs its course.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Boyfriend asks me if it is okay" so your answer was . . ?

Texaskid1 · Answer

Have some street sense young lady. He is going to bang on his ex when Micky is not looking ( or when they are? Who knows what kinky shit they are into).

Find a new "about to be boyfriend"

Hell, I hear that half the guys here on G@G are single and lonely - what don't you give one of these poor virgin sods a chance?

nawtee_me · Answer

Trust issues? I am just friends with my ex-wife. We were living about 45 minutes from one another but she just sold her house and moved to another state. Her husband stayed behind to get everything straight and sale the house. She has asked me to come up there and stay a few weeks. I assure you nothing will happen. I am a handyman and will go stay on the couch and do what little remodeling she wants done. Her husband is okay with that because they have no trust issues...

If you can not trust him then you don't need to be with him... But don't blame him for your lack of trust...

Daniela1982 · Answer

Wait a minute? What happened to the usual risqué pic? If it were me I'd tell him to keep her and kick him to the curb. So you're saying he didn't even try and get a threesome going for the trip?

20thGreatRomances · Answer

The guy that is about to be your boyfriend but... decided to go to Disney with his ex instead. That doesn't sound good at all. From my experience, it's never a good thing when exes start to speak and hangout again. Almost always, the intention is to reconnect or see where their options are at the moment.

Aside from that, I think it is more logical and fair to have taken you instead of his ex. This is assuming that he really is "about to be your boyfriend".

RACSKC0B · Answer

It would probably depend on a few things, namely how long ago they broke up, and if you have anything more then that to make you think other wise.
But really, if there was something going on he's probably not going to ask you if it's OK.
On the other hand, if you're asking for someone's permission, you have to be willing to accept either possible answer.

Lionman95 · Answer

Follow your guts if it helped before you´re in a stage not officially so he can do what he wants. He´s still single. I think it´s funny that many of the guys how guys assume that he plans having sex with her but at the same time argues are unique and everyone´s special...

MCheetah · Answer

Where's your risqué semi-nude selfies to go with the question, Miss Chung? Did you forget to upload them or was GAG having site issues at the time?

Anyway, Disneyworld/Disneyland ain't cheap and definitely ain't a "friends only" location. You are his side chick. That is his main chick.

dynamicyandere · Answer

To DISNEY? Yeah, that’s not a hangout. That’s a date. Even if he’s not planning on doing anything romantic with her, he’s totally pushing boundaries and playing with fire.

Doing something like this, this early on… Sounds like he’s still attached to her.

It sounds like if you two end up being together, and things ever get rocky between you two, this other girl will be on speed dial.

butterfly113 · Answer

Ask him that you ll go somewhere with your ex and tell him we re just friends and see how he ll react i am sure he ll get mad right after tell him that what he hates you doing he should not be doing it eather or just go and join them to keep an eye on them

Kabluie · Answer

I take it he asked because you have other plans that day kind of thing, he's being thoughtful by asking. I've gone to theme parks with gal friends, ones I'm not dating before and we can have just as good time. In a way it's no big deal, so you sit next to each other on rides, have some food, and the like.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

His EX... EX!!!

Excuse my French, but that B**** is his EX. Why the fuck didn't he take you instead? You didn't think about that? He's supposed to become your boyfriend, but he's still with that EX...

Sis, move on, he's not the one for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol no way I’d run for the hills. Ex or not certain things are off limits once you two are no longer an item. Why is she his ex? He broke up w her? Sue broke up w him? Mutual thing? I’m sure he’d have a hissy fit if you went w your ex to Disneyland. She’s an ex for a reason.

kmg9150 · Answer

Talking to or dating. He did Ask if its ok. But on another note, sounds very beta to me. In the end, I think you would prolly leave him but not exactly know why.

AnnaPop · Answer

Absolutely not! Are you invited? Did he offer to take you? Why are they going together what's the purpose? Nope get of him or demand that he not go unless you are there... even then there is no need for them to be in contact like that.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Lol yeah sure it's his ex alright. Girl he's going to Disneyland with his girlfriend. You're the side chick he's talking to right now at the moment before he jumps ship/break up with his girlfriend. Drop him.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Tell him no… you are better and to move on from her. Why stuck in her when she is x. You going to pay for the babies she makes with other guys. Wake up and smell the sushi. Something like that

JosyJosy · Answer

Happy to see some meaningful questions for a change. I think you should dump him. A man who respects you as his girlfriend would never do something like seeing an ex, even if just as friend. Big red flag. Dump him.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Are there kids involved? (I ask because I can’t imagine to go to Disney…but I know there are some adults who are into that stuff.) If so, then he needs to stay connected.

Revenant_Titan · Answer

From a relationship standpoint I don’t find that acceptable, he can rationalize it however he likes but he didn’t really bother to take your feelings into consideration.

Miristheiss · Answer

Takes trips with the ex?  Just move on my love, don't even waste your time with someone with crazy boundaries like that. You'd be miserable with them.

exitseven · Answer

is it like this?

saffoler · Answer

He's trying to get back with her; maybe not for a real relationship. But, at least, friends with benefits.

Crafteroon · Answer

The guy who is not yet your boyfriend wants to do something with his friend, and even asked you for permission, even though he wouldn't have need to do it since he's not your boyfriend yet.

Rania05 · Answer

Honestly even if it's as friend I wouldn't agree in your place if they aren't going with another group of friends

young_OG96 · Answer

Female intuition is a serious thing, that women tend to neglect, if you feel that something is off then it most definitely is

ElementoP · Answer

It's funny when girls like you think being a slut is gonna get them far, then wonder why the wonderful man they found isn't a loyal one And don't try to gaslight me, I've seen your other posts

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah. I wouldn't feel comfortable, lol. I know what I would be thinking if I were the ex.. so no. Lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Do they have kids together? Sometimes ex's do that just for the kids. If not, that's weird as fuck.

Rangers · Answer

Yeah move on, he's a liar. Nobody on the planet is "just friends" with an ex, they're keeping their options open and setting up affairs to live a double life

JPresidente · Answer

I'd tell him to hit the road. It seems like you could be dealing with her in his life for some time and that's not a recipe for a good relationship.

Lenell · Answer

He didn't invite you. RED FLAG. Dump him. Men and women alone together NO. for example, personal trainers bang all their female clients. Married women too.

Staximus · Answer

That's bullshit, get rid of that bum. If he wants to be your boyfriend, he should take your feelings into consideration. There is no reason he should be going on Disneyland dates with his ex.

DermalPunch · Answer

People who stay friends with exes are mad suspect and I don't deal with them.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Is it part of a group trip where his ex is also there or is it Just them two?

bowenw · Answer

Ask him if it's okay if you hang out with a few of your exes while he's away.

GlassTop · Answer

He’s not your boyfriend yet. You just said it. He can do what he wants.

Andres77 · Answer

I’ve got some great Mountain View property in Florida if you’re ever interested

maximumpower · Answer

You're TALKING to him but consider him a boyfriend? It is not your decision or business. If it bothers you, then move on.

888theGreat · Answer

He is getting ass from both of you. Only a immature, insecure, weak, stupid person would go along with it.

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

If a guy is still hanging out with his ex, he was never really in to YOU. He's likely using you

boobliker · Answer

no go on your own and you have a better time finding a girl there

Still-alive · Answer

uhh yeah thats odd... i wouldn't be ok with that either

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Nuts to that. If he was into you he'd be taking you.

Chrissy51 · Answer

I personally would feel very jealous and upset. They may be friends, but I think he should not go or go with you

Jouth · Answer

maybe have sex with his ex girlfriend as revenge.

Anonymous · Answer

i got a friend who i was talking with about disney a few days ago. she and her other friend went earlier this month

Anonymous · Answer

He just wants you for sex, seeds your ab easy slut and takes advantage

Anonymous · Answer

Seems very weird in my opinion, unless he's rich and a huge Disney fan or something.

Anonymous · Answer

You don't take someone who is just a friend to Disney.

dustybiker · Answer

Maybe this time it will work out for them..

Bball24 · Answer

Ditch him that’s horrible

HelloImGoodThanks · Answer

Nope I would be walking away

slatyb · Answer

I think you should date someone else.

Exterminatore · Answer

Yeah…no. Fire him.

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

take me with you instead lmao

Sarahplus2 · Answer

Don't be so gullible McFly.

Guardian45 · Answer

Ya, NOT buying THAT Kool-aid!

golden-locks · Answer

🚩 That is all.

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