've been chatting to a guy for around five months but only saw eachother about 8 times since he's in the army. Often had really nice dates -picnics in park, drinks and I've slept with him before and nothing changed.
Five days ago he invited me to visit him in camp and we slept together again. Fast forward a few days and I think I've caught something from him. He's also suddenly stopped messaging me and it's been about three days now. I thanked him for inviting me and his response was positive - he thanked me for coming and said he enjoyed himself and even put a "x". He also messaged me a day later saying he wasn't feeling well and I said "hope u feel better", but nothing since.
We weren't exclusive, but he knew I don't like casual or friends with benefits and he said he understood. I have no idea when he found out he was infected or if he knew before sleeping together. He doesn't wear protection and I was okay with this because I thought he was only seeing me ( I recognize that we never had the exclusivity convo though).
Why wouldn't he apologise? Is he worried that I'll realise? Does he not care? I have an appointment at the drs soon and I'll need to let him know. Do I tell him he's infected and then just wish him well in life and block him for good?
