He just cancelled our fourth date because he is having drinks with his friends tonight before his friend gets married tomorrow, is this ok?

[Anonymous]

[Be3Bee]

Hmm, what is more important... Celebrating marriage with a long time friend, who will be his friend in the decades to come? Or only a 4th date with a woman he barely knows (3 dates, so roughly what, 9-12 hours of knowing her?) and doesn't know whether she is worth spending his life with?

Base on the tone of your question, I would say him picking his good friend was a correct choice. His friend will get married only once.

[Guy13]

What kind of question is this? Think you are a little selfish, maybe? Friend getting married and you are worried about one date. Better hope he did not pick-up on it. If he did, sex toy or friendzone with no possibility of long-term serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

Are you really asking if this is okay? 4 dates he has cancelled! Girl forget the guy and move on.

[Asker]

It’s the first time he’s cancelled it would of been our fourth date today

[NoNameGuy123]

I'm surprised this is even a question. I'd pick my friend that's about to get married 10 times out of 10.

[genericname85]

you mean he cancelled the 4th date in a row? or just the 4th one?

[Wise4myage]

Time to move on, he doesn't care about you.