Ladies of GAG, how’s your romantic life going? Is it true you have a lot of options like a lot of guys here say? Yes/no? why/why not?

[Pinay_ako]

Romance is blooming! I have a man and sex life is fire

Romance is dead! Nobody’s interested with me

My inbox is filled with admirers, can’t pick who I want

My inbox is loaded with thirsty pervs, none of them I want

I want someone else who doesn’t want me

I am shy af. I like someone but I don't know what to say or do

Anything else to add

[ZS007]

the few guys (about 3) that showed interest in me through social media seemed desperate. The only thing on their mind was I need to get a girlfriend. It showed cause after exchanging 5 blunt texts they would ask are you single showing no effort not caring at all about who you are. They don't know me. I don't know them and guys who act like that and proceed to approach you and interview you checking points in their lists to see if your okay is not okay. In real life nothing which is how I wanna meet someone and not online nothing is happening I've asked two guys out if didn't work. I went out with both. The first one though you I don't know what he is thinking now but he had ghosted me I kept seeing him at uni and he might have felt bad but after he saw me at a party one day he kept liking my stories and tried talking to me on another day even today I posted my cat in my story and he liked. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Seriously what's wrong with some people... So there is no romance neither do I have dms flowing with admirers. I might stay single but that's fine.

[AngelOfLight258]

I haven't dated since before the pandemic :(

[Pinay_ako]

So no one’s knocking on your door here?

[ChiTown33]

Refusal to put forth effort is NOT a lack of options, Just sayin. Most women who say they lack options are generally just unhappy with the options they have. Common sense applies. I mean I'd like to have Scarlet Johansson as an option. But in what universe does that ever happen? Not even in the comic Marvel universe 🤣. (Actually no, I'm quite certain due to our politics we'd never get along lol anyways.)

It's OK to desire more. It's OK to fantasize. But it's important to always stay grounded in reality. You get what you give in life. And you should NEVER give more effort than somebody is willing to give you in a relationship. It's called a PARTNERSHIP for a reason. I think a lot of women SAY they want a relationship (and i believe in thier mind they do). But very FEW want a partnership.

[MCheetah]

Dropping truth bombs here.

[2nd_Sexiest_Man]

I haven't been on a date before the pandemic began. I would assume the pandemic has made dating (hard) if not impossible for both men and women.

[2nd_Sexiest_Man]

Thanks for MHO

[Pinay_ako]

You’re welcome

[2nd_Sexiest_Man]

could you ask you a favour since your a woman... could you look over the questions I've asked and give me some advice on how to improve them. Im not gettin any replies.

[RosieMelts]

I can’t put ‘romance’ and ‘sex’ in the same sentence- other than this one, previously mentioned here. Lol

Sex is great and available everywhere, BUT have I found someone who can fucking sit down and listen, and be intrigued? Nope

I never find a good enough listener as myself or one willing to “talk a mile,” as myself : ) never met anyone who can also do the ‘sitting in silence,’ and just taking in each other’s company as bliss.

So my romantic life- yeah, I left that stuck in the first year out of highschool. You do the math 😂😆 It’s gonna be a heck of an adventure tho! 🎢🏔🌋🗺🚀✈️🚨

[RosieMelts]

Hope yours goes way better and is promising @Pinay_ako 😊

[Pinay_ako]

Thanks honey 🍯 💕

[melanieeeB]

Well I'm not talking to anyone at all.
I don't have dates.
I sometimes flirt with people but it's more unconsciously happening.
I do get approached on the streets sometimes but after some small talk (until now all of them were really symphatic) I be like "Oh i have to go" and bye.. just simply cause I'm not ready to date again.

Uhm my dm is dry as hell and that since years now (I don't count GAG tho, cause I don't take those serious)

In real life, like I know a guy who already asked me out 3 years ago and I did say yes but corona happened and we never went out. He is living nearby, I still occasionally se him while getting groceries but yeah I'm not that interested, otherwise I would have already said something but I see in his eyes that he would like to ask me again tho

Then I know four other men from work, who find me attractive but there is nothing, they just simply stated that they find me good looking.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'm not dating right now, by choice.

I'm only about 5 months out from dumping my ex-fiancé, so understandably I'm not looking for a relationship, lol.

I would say I have a lot of options, though. Both viable ones whom I'm not interested in because of circumstance or preference, and disgusting pervs I ignore or toy with.

But honestly right now I don't care for romance. I'm focused on making my life one I want to share with someone in the future, and just getting out there to meet new people.

Plus I'm dating women and enbies only, so I do have many more options than just disgusting cishet men.

[MCheetah]

Women ALWAYS have options. Always. Unless, maybe it's the Apocalypse or global pandemic or something. Women having decent men available to them and women wanting one of these men, are two different things. Most men are unattractive to most women and the 80-20 rule is accurate. Hell, it's probably more like the 95-5 rule, as 95% of men aren't good enough to most modern Western women.

(No, I'm not "being sexist." It's the truth and most men know that and have said that on here.)

[jennyPuss]

i have ZERO options because i'm married.

but that doesn't stop thirsty guys from throwing themselves at me. ladies y'all need to start giving it to more guys because i'm getting tired here. just because i have big bumpers doesn't mean i'm a target. if all these guys had their own wives there's a good chance they'd be acting a bit more proper.

[AsaKyo]

That's funny

[AssholeNumberOne]

I am single right now because I want to be. However, once I am closer friends with a guy I wanna date, I'll ask him out. And even if he rejects me, I have plenty of other options for now.

For now, I just enjoy the company of plenty of hot boys in my community.

[JosyJosy]

Going well. A lot of options sure, but a lot of actual matches? No. I gave up on dating because they would either be ready for sex or want to get in a relationship after a week or month like they're in a rush. And sorry I don't go that fast, so they'd eventually call it quits. But I found a guy who moved just as slow so that worked out.

[cth2188]

It's not way too many guys are vaccinated which is a barrier for me and the type of partner I want...

[cth2188]

Relationship standard non vaccinated mate

[cth2188]

Sorry if you are jabbed it's a no

[dustybiker]

🔥 I’m a very lucky woman to have met my match 🔥

[Changiis07]

I'm happy being single but have guys wanting to hang out and one sent me flowers. I'm just not interested in anyone at the moment, loving the single life way too much lol

[heatherlou]

My romantic life is none existent at the moment. But I don't put any effort in or go looking for anything so I can't speak for how harz or easy it would be to find one.

[Fuentes]

Theirs no question all woman have a lot of options including ugly or fat women theirs tons of men who will still fuck them lol

[Pinay_ako]

R u fr? 🤣

[Fuentes]

I have never met one fat woman who could not go onto Tinder or scream out in the club she wants dick and nobody would reject that offer same as an ugly chick. If they say no it's cause they're being picky with men.

I'm not saying it's gonna be the man of your dreams but their are still options. Which men don't have if they're fat or ugly or both infact women are grossed out by those men trying to even come onto them lol

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 oml

[MCheetah]

@Pinay_ako
He's telling the truth. No woman is single without choice. Women choose to be single.

[Fuentes]

@MCheetah they don't realize the man they reject and think was a creep or just wasn't interested in was an option. They think it has to be a MAN they want ONLY is the only way they have true options lol which they still don't realize MOST men don't even have women they can be like she's a creep NOPE, or I'm not interested NO, lol most men don't get options like that.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm building my life back after a breakup and not looking for love. If I'm asked out by someone if really into I'll go out with them but until then im just focusing on new and old friendships, hobbies and fitness.

[Literalbillionaire17]

There’s a few options open to me but I kinda like all of them 😂

[Pinay_ako]

Oooh girl

[Agape93]

It's going well.

Yes I have options, but that's because I know them well

[midnightmoon05]

My teen years… E

My 20s - C

since then I am in committed relationships…sex not on fire lol but happy fun enjoyable life.

[petitedollbabee]

Great. I’ve been in a relationship for little over a year and a half, and I see myself being with my partner for the rest of my life.

[LazerBean]

It's going great, not much has really changed over the past 3 years of marriage lol

[beebella]

I'm shy and have been crushing on an unavailable man for the past year and a half. 😭

[Still-alive]

i guess you can say he's 'like the wind!' *cue 80s song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lU9p1WRfA9w

[beebella]

Not Dirty Dancing. 😭

[itsalyssaagain]

I mean receiving attention and having the person you want, want you too are two different things.

[MCheetah]

Yes. No woman will struggle finding a large number of men who want them. It's just a matter of these men being good enough for their (high) standards.

[itsalyssaagain]

Thats how you see it.

[DancingQueen16]

I'm not talking to anyone on this site because I already have a boyfriend in the real world

[BurntKeyboard]

Very shy, and nobody has approached me yet. This autism and social anxiety thing I have is way more difficult than I'd like.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Some opiton. Be texting one then from face book dating. At moment.

[Guardian45]

WHAT is this thing you call Romantic Life? I have NEVER heard of it! I think you made this SH! T up?

[Topher87090]

It's not that women don't have options it's that they dont give ugly men the time of day. How many ugly guys are you talking to? Probably 0.

[qwert1234]

What romantic life? Is it edible?

[NathanDavis]

such a great poem... lol, catchy

[Phoenix98]

Just here out of curiosity don't mind me.

[pizzalovershouse]

I say most guys are bad st romance

[Zolly99999]

@Pinay_ako I hope yours is going well.

[RandomGuy1030]

... This question

[LavLavLuv]

shy bunny