Best friend is reluctant to set me up with her friend?

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I met a guy at a friend's party and we hit it off really well and now we are getting closer and will probably be in a relationship once we know each other better.

However some things have been said which have confused me, he says he's noticed me before with our mutual friend (my best friend) and repeatedly asked her if she could introduce us or get us talking in some way, but she's never done it.

I don't really understand why my friend has never done this. Apparently at the party he asked her again to introduce us, but she made up excuses like she was too busy, so someone else ended up doing it and that's how we got talking.

i feel a bit confused as to why she wouldn't do anything to get the ball rolling, she has a boyfriend and they've been together for years, but some people have suggested that maybe she likes him.

Also after myself and the guy have been hanging out for a while now, she hasn't even bothered to ask how things are going or take any interest at all. she bumped into us one day and didn't look very happy..

I don't know if i should say anything to her or just leave it. I kinda feel like she's been a cockblock and she could've helped... maybe she's just not the type of person to set people up but a simple 'this is so n so' intro would've been fine... but even this she didn't want to do.

She also goes on about how nice he is etc., so it can't be that she thought he'd hurt me.

Any ideas?


tl;dr: best friend with boyfriend hasn't bothered to set me up with a guy who was interested, no idea why, should i even bother to ask her?

Best friend is reluctant to set me up with her friend?
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