What is the one thing that will make you turn around and walk out on a first date?

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Run!!! How about you?

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I've never turned around on a first date, but I have decided, first impression , that there wouldn't be a second date.

A woman I met online. We agreed to meet for dinner at a Chinese restaurant. She was 30 minutes late, obese (not at all like her online picture), wearing this pink hot pants outfit that barely covered her boobs. The first words out of her mouth were "These shorts are rubbing against my pussy." I ate the food and then left, barely saying goodbye to her. She sent me an online message the next day that she had a great date and wanted to see me again... I didn't reply.

Zolly99999 · Accepted Answer

When she starts talking about her satanic cult...😳😳😳

Bexxiib · Accepted Answer

My first boyfriend took me on a date for the first time and he literally bought his mum with us. I said I had to go but he made up the excuse “I promised your mum that I’ll get you home, you can’t just go home on your own.” And every time I tried to leave he wouldn’t let me.

Reddy4it · Accepted Answer

If he gets a bong out…

dolemite89 · Answer

one time i took a girl out to one of my fave restaurants and she was rude to me and the waiters, she was texting on her phone, ordering expensive food and drinks, just acting like a bitch. So i said i had to go to the bathroom and i just got up and left so she was stuck with a huge bill 🤣 true story

Lucy68 · Answer

He can not be rude to servers. Has to at least put an effort into his appearance especially on the first date. I view the first date as somewhat of a job interview honestly, so if you are kind and friendly to those around me and me, and you put in effort to look nice and smell nice then we'll have a second date. But if not im running from the hills.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If a family member of mine needs help with something, and she replies: "That's not my problem," because she wants me to spend time (and money!) on her in that moment instead, that's a serious sign that she's a bit too high-maintenance and inconsiderate to be worth my time.

melanieeeB · Answer

It could be a lot of things, but mostly I talk or phone call over a few days before saying yes to a date, already selecting some guys out and so that doesn't happen often.

Until now I only have run out of a date, cause it was too fast for me and I was overwhelmed, I was 16 and one where I already said that I have to go now but he tried kissing me and I said no and it got uncomfortable and so I just left

xJeremyx · Answer

Not respecting my boundaries and opinions. Like sure, you can disagree, and I am ok with that, but show respect.

Also, expecting me to pay. Dont get me wrong, I will always offer to pay the bill, but I am not about to get together with someone who expects me to take sole responsibility for, or intiate almost everything.

Makeushiver · Answer

Carl Jung coined the term individuation to describe the maturation of someone from child to adult. I think he meant that a person had desveloped their own moral code, inttellectual self-sufficiency, capability f behaving like an adult. Lack of that is often behind traits like neediness, sepsration from parents, and abiity to form ideas independent of parent;s beliefs. It also requires the ability to change opinions held when people are younger, not emotionally or intellectually matured.

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NathanDavis · Answer

neo-nazi tattoos or accessories... actually happened once, lol...

dustybiker · Answer

Any disrespect to anyone around them. Men who can treat other well, even when they are being rude to him.. don’t know just how attractive that is. 😍

ChiTown33 · Answer

Fortunately I've never had that bad of an experience. I guess it would take a complete disregard for me. Attitude is everything. Yes, dating can be brutal but regardless of what you've dealt with in your past do your best to leave those past experiences out of your current date. I don't mind a woman referencing bad past experiences but don't let those bad experiences rule you. Positivity is attractive. Being negative and being a victim is not.

dragoblack · Answer

Many reasons. 1: obviously disrespect, 2: just plain incompatible as people, 3: looks nothing as discribed, 4: obviously has no interest in me as a person and is only there for free stuff/meal, 5: voice is aggrivating to hear, 6: puts off tons of red flags, and 7: poor hygiene.

Topaz1979 · Answer

If he has bad hygiene and if he's rude to me or people around him, I'll leave faster than he can say "guihhgscygeyidhehdvg".  🚶‍♀️.

77five · Answer

That tweet is a perfect reason to bring her back. I listen to metal subgenres and anyone who can't appreciate difference in music is a snob.

RavVid · Answer

I had a girl who recognized another diner and enthusiastically talked with him. She gave me the impression that I would be very lucky indeed if she left the restaurant with me.. So I simply walked out.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

No 2 things turn me off more than entitlement and boasting on a first date. I want to get to know the guy and see if we can click, not hear him trying to bullshit me on why I should drop everything to be his wife.

VIVANT · Answer

Being rude to whomever in whatever form good bye.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Repeated questions about whether the wife I don’t have knows that I’m out on a date. I get asking the question once; people are dogs, but don’t keep asking.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

The date that ordered so much food I had to say I got leave friend needs help with him being stranded took my pizzas an left no food for her 3pizzas to me an my relatives

TheVigilantOne · Answer

If I have a bad feeling about them, or if I find out they’re lying.

qwert1234 · Answer

"You will pay, right?" Red flag right there. Ofcourse I will pay, would be nice if you don't expect/demand it though.

Still-alive · Answer

If she has an extremely low opinion on video games or people who play them.  Same thing with cats or cat owners. Lol 😂  she's gotta at least be ok with both :p

MrPickles13 · Answer

Disrespect/insulting people for any reason, not making something of an effort (clothing/attitude).

Not taking any sort of initiative with conversation. Things like that.

I don't think it's possible to have just one thing.

macjets007 · Answer

If she starts grilling me about past gfs within the 1st 10 minutes. Unless she's super hot and has a ncie personality besides that, I can't think of a bigger red flag for CRAZY.

Guardian45 · Answer

AGREED! BUT I NEVER let it get that far! On G@G, I have hunted and exposed a LOT of Catfish!🤣

Quidthonian · Answer

Her lighting up a cigarette. That is an immedate disqualification in my book.

LogicBomber · Answer

Obvious Feminist  To much makeup Dressed like a whore Acts like an entitled brat

Twalli · Answer

If I find out she's married or in an exclusive relationship.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Being disrespectful to me. I have a zero tolerance for that.

altaboy · Answer

Drugs. No, I don't have any interest in cocain, thank you. See you around.

Dreamclouds · Answer

If she is really obsessive about something or just plain stupid.

BIGDennis · Answer

Spending the entire date texting on her cell phone instead of interacting with me.

introvertedfeeler · Answer

When a woman expects you to pay the full bill on the first date. I don't do that anymore!

ZackBan · Answer

If she has a D

exitseven · Answer

If you were stoned when i showed up.

Andres77 · Answer

Being mean to the servers in a restaurant

TroyDT · Answer

Her being rude to the server.

bigpauly · Answer

If they say something bigoted I will dip

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m not really dating, not like a real date

bolverk · Answer

Bad manners/attitude.

msc545 · Answer

Racist comments will do it for me.

Fuentes · Answer

If she shows any signs of being a SJW

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Bitchiness.

Xtendable · Answer

Disrespect

MrTaboo · Answer

Vegan Feminist

EaterPeter · Answer

Hardly anything

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