Is it bad that I think my boyfriend can be boring to talk to?

[Anonymous]

So our conversations were great at first but now it feels so short. I feel like I'm the only one that attempts to talk about things. His conversations are boring as in I'm like "what'd you do today" he'd be like "nun much". I'm like omg feels like I'm talking to a brick wall at times. I'm a conversationalist, I talk a lot to people I'm comfortable with. I told him about it and he just said "I'm sorry you feel that way"...

[JBlade]

Ngl his response made me chuckle lol. Some people just aren’t talkative, now that things have settled in, maybe he feels he doesn’t need to talk much or that is more comfortable for him. Relationships are about compromise. Since this is an issue for you, maybe try one more talk about to see if he is willing to compromise on conversations and effort. You can’t change him though. As a quiet chill person, conversationalist are a disturbance. I would never commit to consistent lengthy talks but would put more effort enhance the ones we do have though.

[Asker]

I'll see about it, I know when to be quiet too but I just want the convo to carry at times.

[Truthatanycost]

'our conversations were great at first but now it feels so short'

Translation = attraction masked his boring conversations but now it's worn off and I notice them.

[Asker]

No, he talked more now it's just short

[Anonymous]

Yes, that is not good at all.

[Asker]

Yeah it's boring.

[KrakenAttackin]

No one said Chad was class A orator.

[Asker]

*sighs*

[KrakenAttackin]

To be fair he may find you exhausting.

[Asker]

I'm not overly talkative