Am I insecure for thinking my boyfriends cheating?

[Anonymous]

2 months ago my boyfriend cheated and lied about were he was going at night I took him back after a month. Lately he's been working at a temp agency because he lost his job he usually gets off at 3 sometimes 4 he today he dosent get off until 6:30 and usually when he calls me I head construction in the background when he called me and sent voice messages the background was quiet so i text him and asked If he was cheating because of how late he's getting off and the background being so quiet after I asked that he called me insecure

[HighValue]

You should never stay in a relationship once someone cheated. Trust is FOREVER damaged. It will only cause you stress and you will never be truly happy together. It may be difficult to leave someone you once cared about and trusted, but it is best for you in the long run.

[maximumpower]

Nope.
He may not ever do it again but the sad truth is that you lack maturity and will never get over it.
For the better of both of you, move on NOW, grow up and then try again with someone else.
If not, you're ALWAYS going to have this in the back of your mind and WILL throw it back into his face later.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Christ... one line in and it already starts off great. You take back a cheater. Never do that. You're not insecure for thinking he's cheating again, but insecure for giving a cheater a second chance. Get rid of that disgrace.

[Insaniacthemaniac]

No, you seriously need to get rid of the guy if he's cheating on you. You can't trust him, it just all sounds like bad news to me, i would find someone else if i was you.

[Noodle_fan]

nope , he broke your trust , it is not your fault if you can't trust him again

[In_Trance]

yeah