So I (18F) have been seeing this guy (18M) from my school since July now. We hanged out a few times, we went either on walks or bike trips, and got quite romantic - we hold hands, kiss, hug, but I'm not really comfortable to be in a serious relationship because I simply don't want to disappoint or get disappointed. He texts me every day and seems to care a lot but there's one thing that makes me question what the hell is going on.
As I mentioned, we went on walks or bike rides, nothing more. Every time he mentions a meeting, it's just a walk, we never went out to eat, drink coffee, see a movie. I remember once he mentioned that he knows a good restaurant he wants to take me to and that he would pay because he's the one inviting but it never happened. Is it about money? He doesn't want to pay for me? I guess it's quite expected for a guy to pay for a girl, especially if it's him that invites, so maybe that's the reason. I don't really mind tho, I can pay for myself.
Not gonna lie, the reason that I wouldn't call him a boyfriend is that it just seems a bit off - I would like my boyfriend to take me to nice places, do something fun together, be comfortable. I see people my age facetiming their loved ones, doing sleepovers, even travelling together, getting flowers, but this guy doesn't even invite me to go eat. Once we were talking that it would be nice to sleep together, we would watch a movie etc but he told me that he doesn't invite anyone to his house because of his family and small flat.
I don't really know what I should do about this, I treat him like a friend because I expect more from a potential boyfriend. What does it mean? What should I do?
