I dated this guy last semester. We hit it off real cool in the beginning. The first night we met he told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend. I found this weird. I remember telling him we just met how could he be so sure? He was just like "i am!" I was very interested in him but I decided to take things slow.
As two months went by I really began to fall for him. I hadn't dated a guy and months and he seemed so amazing. We ended up having sex for the first time. I truly felt he cared for me.
I soon began to lose trust. He constantly bitched about little things I did and I felt it was just to cover up the things he was doing. He was always lying. We would break up and get back together. I soon found out the hardest way that he had only recently broke up with a girl from his old school about a month after we were involved. . I told him I was done for GOOD. I ignored all calls, texts, Facebook messages etc. I was so hurt. He took all attempts of talking to my friends and his friends of trying to get back with me. I ended up after two months giving him another chance because I truly cared for him. I saw his efforts as really big this time around. Little did I know, he just wasn't the guy for me. He hadn't changed and was still lying!. I was done...FOR REAL.
Summer went by and school started this semester. All of the guys I know all hang out with him also. I saw him for the first time at a back to school college party. The guy that I had just met a couple of weeks earlier was at the party also... and standing near him. I went to greet my new friend and not only until I walked off did I see my ex standing next to him. I began to feel weird. I didn't like that they hung out. At the end of the party my ex tried to come up and talk to me and I completely ignored him. Not one word. I was still hurt and just didn't want anything to do with him. I saw him at another party the next weekend and he grabbed my arm and tried to talk to me again. I brushed him off without a word and completely ignored him. He watched me the whole night. I felt a little guilty about being so rude but I just felt he didn't deserve a convo yet because of how he did me and I was obviously still hurting some because we never had real closure.
Me and the guy he was with at the party had start getting real close.We hooked up but no sex soon after.
NOW THE MAIN PROBLEM...
I thought I was over my ex until I just saw a picture of him and this other girl on her profile picture. All the hurt I had tried to push away came BACK within seconds. Later that day I decided to message him on fb. it said something like : " Hey how are you? How's school/life? I know its been awhile but I jus wanted to check on you. I'm doing good and school and staying outta trouble lol. But besides what you think I wish you the best regardless. Keep your head up."
He DIDNT REPLY. But I saw he went in and changed his profile pic to one with his NEW girl. Is he truly happy or is he just trying to make me jealous?
As two months went by I really began to fall for him. I hadn't dated a guy and months and he seemed so amazing. We ended up having sex for the first time. I truly felt he cared for me.
I soon began to lose trust. He constantly bitched about little things I did and I felt it was just to cover up the things he was doing. He was always lying. We would break up and get back together. I soon found out the hardest way that he had only recently broke up with a girl from his old school about a month after we were involved. . I told him I was done for GOOD. I ignored all calls, texts, Facebook messages etc. I was so hurt. He took all attempts of talking to my friends and his friends of trying to get back with me. I ended up after two months giving him another chance because I truly cared for him. I saw his efforts as really big this time around. Little did I know, he just wasn't the guy for me. He hadn't changed and was still lying!. I was done...FOR REAL.
Summer went by and school started this semester. All of the guys I know all hang out with him also. I saw him for the first time at a back to school college party. The guy that I had just met a couple of weeks earlier was at the party also... and standing near him. I went to greet my new friend and not only until I walked off did I see my ex standing next to him. I began to feel weird. I didn't like that they hung out. At the end of the party my ex tried to come up and talk to me and I completely ignored him. Not one word. I was still hurt and just didn't want anything to do with him. I saw him at another party the next weekend and he grabbed my arm and tried to talk to me again. I brushed him off without a word and completely ignored him. He watched me the whole night. I felt a little guilty about being so rude but I just felt he didn't deserve a convo yet because of how he did me and I was obviously still hurting some because we never had real closure.
Me and the guy he was with at the party had start getting real close.We hooked up but no sex soon after.
NOW THE MAIN PROBLEM...
I thought I was over my ex until I just saw a picture of him and this other girl on her profile picture. All the hurt I had tried to push away came BACK within seconds. Later that day I decided to message him on fb. it said something like : " Hey how are you? How's school/life? I know its been awhile but I jus wanted to check on you. I'm doing good and school and staying outta trouble lol. But besides what you think I wish you the best regardless. Keep your head up."
He DIDNT REPLY. But I saw he went in and changed his profile pic to one with his NEW girl. Is he truly happy or is he just trying to make me jealous?
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