When I'm in relationships, I find myself feeling horrible for things like seeing another girl in public and finding her attractive. Opinions?

[Anonymous]

(I know the photo is a little overdramatic for a post like this, but I couldn't find one a little less dramatic)

I have absolutely zero interest in talking or interacting with them in any way, but just the fact that I find them attractive makes me feel pretty bad.

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+1 y

Dang. I forgot the photo 😂🤦‍♂️

[Avicenna]

There's no reason to feel guilty about noticing attractive women- they're everywhere and you're not blind. You should only feel guilty if you want to act on that attraction or, heaven forbid, you actually do act on it. But you aren't doing either of those things, so there is absolutely no reason for you to feel guilty.

[Hawner]

Even in a relationship, you are free to look around and have an opinion about other women. The same goes for her, obviously.
Looking is not bad. Touching, on the other hand, is. That is the line never to be crossed.

[Anonymous]

Unpopular opinion here: If you're in love with someone you get tunnel vision.
No one else is attractive to you. Not to the point where you're giving it so much thought. You implied youve had multiple relationships so something tells me youve never felt love to a a degree where no other woman fazes you.

[Lowiu]

Thats nothing bad like of course you still think other women are attractive even in a relationship Im sure she also does think some men are attractive its just how you deal with it

[Guy13]

Good Boy. Too bad you’re not named. Every girl 👧 would be hitting FOLLOW or casually keeping their eye 👁 on you. Oh well…what a waste for the Anon. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Tina19]

It's natural to feel attracted to someone who is attractive i don't see a problem in that

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Nothing wrong with looking