I don’t, but I don’t do big food dates the first time either! How a woman reacts to a non food date, tells me about her expectations from me! Have no expectations of me, and I’ll have non of you! Just enjoyed the company!
Totally depends on the person and the vibe of the date. If things are going well but there's no sexual energy then no and that's fine, most young men definitely will want it the first date whether they often get it or not though lol.
i had sex on the first date twice. once many years ago. and once 3 years ago. both were under 24. both were fun people , both were adventurous and one didn’t care i was older.
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I don’t, but I don’t do big food dates the first time either! How a woman reacts to a non food date, tells me about her expectations from me! Have no expectations of me, and I’ll have non of you! Just enjoyed the company!
I would consider it if i feel like a relationship won't work. If i have serious intensions i would want to date her couple of times befor having sex
Only once. It was in the moment and went with gut. Still going strong 17 years later. Sometimes you just know.
They were The One and ONLY person right up until today?
@Guardian45 Someone like me lasting to 27? And “up until today”. Really? 🤨
Sorry. I'm confused.
@Guardian45 lol.. okay,
Totally depends on the person and the vibe of the date. If things are going well but there's no sexual energy then no and that's fine, most young men definitely will want it the first date whether they often get it or not though lol.
It depends on the person but I have had sex on the first date.
I'd rather wait a bit more and make sure I actually like them first and we actually fit together first.
I've had sex on the first date with a few of the women I've dated. If we connect right away, why wait?
I don't go on dates and I wouldn't consider that even if I did go on dates
I'm one of those weirdos who likes boyfriend/girlfriend soox if you know, I ever do lose my virginity 😎
Pardone?
Your point here is fair enough
Have and would will if the connection is there and the vibe is right.
At my age if sex doesn't occur before the first date then I would assume she isn't into me.
If we talked alone online then maybe, otherwise rather wait and get to know each other more.
I mean talked a lot online.
i had sex on the first date twice.
once many years ago. and once 3 years ago. both were under 24. both were fun people , both were adventurous and one didn’t care i was older.
I'd wait, I think for some people, ex on the first date might be considered a red flag
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Not sure. I had a good we never went on a date. We met and had sex. Then more sex. Then we started being a couple.
It's rare for me. I've had only ONE ONS, and it was a DISASTER! NEVER AGAIN!
I need to have some basis of compatibility; NOT just sexual attraction. Sex without it, is not worth it!
Nope, I don't have sex with a guy if I don't know and trust him and am in a committed relationship with him. I don't understand women who do.
these sort of responses strongly suggest that you've done it.
@Pixel343 Which part of my response makes you think I've done it? The part where I said I haven't?
I prefer to wait, but I understand why some people don't.
If it's one night stand that's one thing. For dating no. I want to get to know the person. I am looking for a serious relationship.
Before I was 21 I usually had sex before the first date. Now, absolutely not. I need a deeper connection than that.
Depends on the level of attraction, and if they stay committed right after sex. If its just a fling or one night stand deal... Absolutely NOT.