Is it easy to tell when someone doesn't get any girl's or date's? Can women tell when a guy doesn't have self confidence?

[poneglyphs]

Ever since I stopped using dating apps I rarely talk to anyone. Also, that I'm trying to save money as much as I can.

Also, a couple of coworkers keep wondering when am I going to a girlfriend 🙃 🙄.

[MCheetah]

Yes, they can. Happy people are happy because life works in their favor. Unhappy people are unhappy because they get screwed over in life, OR they're just ungrateful. But women can smell "singledom" like sharks with blood in the water. They have a 6th sense about it.

And usually, it's when a guy respects a woman. The more a guy "tries" with a girl, the less successful with women he tends to be, and that's what women pick up on. That's why so many of them (if not most of them) love a guy that treats them like sh*t. The whole subconscious "if he can treat me like this, he must have TONS of women after him!" mentality, versus the "if he's good to me, he must be a desperate loser" mentality.

It's f*cked up, but it's 100% true. I've seen it with my own eyes. I've even been like this to women I'm not interested in (skinny black girls, Muslims, flat-chested white girls, etc). I'm not even a jerk to them; I'm just not attracted to them when most other guys around them are, and then they get intrigued by me, because they think "Well, how hot are girls he's pulling if he's not even paying me any mind?" No, I'm just not into the skinny, petite, short, ass-less girls so many white dudes find "hot." Yet, they'll be more into me than I am into them.

TL;DR: The nicer you are to a girl, the less they'll want you and smell the desperation on you. The more you treat a girl like sh*t and don't put up with her crap, the more attracted they are to you.

[ShadezMcgee]

Women tend to be like bloodhounds when it comes to sensing weakness or perception when one isn't confident. They will test you and see if they can get a more accurate feel or whiff. Say or do the wrong thing, game over. They will be quick to jump to a different guy and leave you behind.

[Twalli]

I think that guys who have had girlfriends or have a girlfriend appear more confident. I was never hit on before I got my girlfriend. Since then I've been hit on 4 times. Once by a gay guy until he realized I was 100% straight and once by a gay girl who thought I was female.

[NathanDavis]

I just don't care this much about other's lives... lol

I don't go around trying to guess which guys are single or not, or whatever... I just go on my way with my own stuff... lol

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay

[RealMarek]

Women can sniff out desperation a mile away and hate it. If you don’t feel confident, act confident. Continue saving money, get some credentials, and keep working out. Eventually you may actually feel more confident.

[Guy13]

They can smell it… sense lack of confidence

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well I guess it's a good thing I rarely talk to anyone 🙃

[Guy13]

Well, there you go... problem solved !!

[poneglyphs]

Yay...😒😒😒

[Guy13]

Well Risk if you not happy 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Avicenna]

Sometimes it's pretty obvious from body language and how they interact with others.

Don't just talk to the attractive women.

[TroyDT]

They do not know if you get dates or not, but women can definitely sense desperation like a shark can smell a bucket of blood twenty feet away.

[Anonymous]

Desperation is like body odor... they can smell it a mile away.

[Part2603]

Yes, instinctively.

[exitseven]

Yes, lack of confidence smells of fear.