My boyfriend who is 2 years younger dumped me for someone younger because he thought I wanted kids soon how should I feel better?

[Anonymous]

I was 2 years older which I thought made know diffence but he kept saying to me I was wanting kids soon which wasn't true as I was just going with the flow with the new relationship we had but he dumped me for someone younger

[boggboss]

Where did he get the thought that u wanted kids soon

[Asker]

Not sure he just came out with it one day when we were eating dinner... I was like wtf in my head

[boggboss]

Did u never challenge him or ask why

[Asker]

Not once did I ever bring up anything about kids 🤷‍♀️

[boggboss]

No point telling me that again did u never call him out on why he was saying that or why he thought that

[Asker]

Yeah he was like your 30 and I will want kids soon tbh I sat quietly I didn't know how to respond

[boggboss]

If u never challamged what he said he could take that as u agreeing and not having anything to say about it

[Asker]

Well I said I doubt I would want kids becuase I've never thought about it

[boggboss]

Why would u simply not say that's not true saying I doubt that makes it seem you are unsure😅

[Asker]

Well forget my response... I wonder why he would bring up such topic tho

[Asker]

Did he just want a younger girlfriend possibly?

[boggboss]

Thats completely possible but then it equally could have been somthing he thought with how u acted or things u have said but thats impossible for me to know

[Asker]

I haven't asked about kids I have just been hanging out like playing video games etc not sure where something like would come up only dated him since July

[boggboss]

Then nit sure it's why I say its somthing u should have brought up

[Berethor]

Jerk move, but it's not uncommon for men to want someone younger.

[LazerBean]

He was just making it up an excuse to dump you it sounds like.

[TroyDT]

He was just looking for an excuse by which to blame you for the breakup. Let it go and find someone who appreciates you for you.

[rabbitzzz]

You should like to find an established rich man who is 35 or something.

[KrakenAttackin]

Perhaps he just wanted a younger woman.

[Asker]

he's not even popular with the girls and has some fat girl 🤣

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. He chose her over you.