How should I act in order to get her?

[Anonymous]

So here’s the situation.

A girl is in a relationship with a friend of mine, but he doesn’t want to hang out with her anymore. He still didn’t tell her that in person but he took his distance from her including blocking her number and I told myself this the moment to take a chance with her.

Even if their relationship is not in real good terms the last couple of days and on the verge of being over he’s still in her mind, she’s upset he’s not talking to her nor answering her calls, so I’m wondering what to do.

The weird thing is that she doesn’t act normal with me, we met like 2 or 3 times and she already tells me she trusts me and I’m dear to her. She also hugs me when we meet, and yesterday when we were hanging out with some friends at a coffee shop (her ‘’boyfriend’’ wasn’t with us of course) she put her head over my shoulder and took my hand almost the whole evening. We regularly talk at night via text as well (she even texts me first sometimes).

So I really want to know what all of this means, what’s her game, am I on her mind as well (even if it’s just for a little bit) despite her not being ‘’officially’’ single? Also what’s the next move for me to move all of this forward and not to be just ‘’The friend who just she enjoy being around’’

[BlueScorpio]

Mmm nope too soon, she just got out of relationship with your friend and you need to know if your friend would be okay with you being around/dating his ex. It might come off as you secretly waiting for your shot, dating friends exes can be real messy situation so you need to be sure I'd that's even okay. Plus she's not even over your friend, the girl is still angry upset about him ghosting her, it sounds like she could be rebounding and just need a shoulder to cry on. I just dont think the timing is right but it's really up to you and what you want to do.

[Asker]

Well actually we talked him and I about it and he’s ok with it, he doesn’t have a problem me going after his ex

[Bethany22]

Maybe things aren't going well in her current relationship and she wants to see how easy it could be to get a relationship with someone else if she officially broke up with current boyfriend

[Asker]

So basically there is a chance and I should continue trying

[Bethany22]

Right

[Anonymous]

She might be testing you to see if she will want to take things to the next level.

[Asker]

I shall just continue trying with her then!