You've shared what you want, and he's said he wants you to find someone who treats you better, yet no one is reaching out to fully understand the other person. He has no idea what going on a date means to you, and you don't understand his reluctance to take you on a date.
Commonly, people feel the focus of communication is being heard. Rarely do people show a true desire to hear and understand the other person. You don't need a reason to break up. You can move on, but you'll probably bring the same communication patterns to the new relationship, eventually giving you the same results.
Lol. Then break up. You’re wanting him to put in all the effort and not contributing anything yourself. What do you mean by not taking you on a date?
You’re not entitled. Why aren’t you taking him on dates? I don't know. Maybe you are. Not to jump to assumptions. Maybe you’re putting all the effort in and getting nothing.
But. You aren’t entitled. Maybe your entitled behavior is the reason and certainly makes me not want to do anything for someone.
Also. Your sexist comment about men. Don’t take your relationship with someone out on all men. Lol. I don’t do that to women overall. It makes you look sexist. If you’re sexist. There is another reason.
If you want to do something. You’re perfectly capable of doing it yourself.
Not a red flag. He is being honest with you. He gave you big big reasons and told you to go to someone else.
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That’s pretty good reason to me
@AnnasiaB
In my opinion,
Sit down and write out the exact relationship you want.
Exactly how you want it detail by detail.
How you want to treat each other.
What types of activities you two indulge in as a unit.
Everything.
From that point on, you know what you want
Now you should get him to write one out
Then come together and write out one together.
If you two cannot get on the same page, split up.
I highly, recommend doing this as soon as any relationship turns serious.
It gives a collective objective.
Make sure to add character traits to your written out vision.
And be sure to highlight the must haves
"Why are men so lazy and not taking more initiative in relationships it’s ridiculous"
Says the woman who is sitting on her hands waiting for her man to take her on a date.
Here's a thought... why don't YOU take some initiative for a change and take HIM on a date?
It's taken a year for you to come to your senses? Then of course you blame it all on him and have no accountability.
Yeah... If you're not spoiled ( your way ) then what's the point of being in a relationship 🤷♂️...
I can't take people on a date, and trust me my girlfriend and I really want to go on a date.
Because it's how he is? If you don't like it, it's fine to break up with him not all men want to go on dates lol.
Time to leave the ass hole.
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