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I voted 'disagree' just because I don't know the percentages... Also, I disagree with the common idea that 'best years' are young years for a woman. Sure, for looks that's true. For character traits/personality, I'm not convinced at all tho. Yes, I'm sure most guys get leftovers. Better to be the guy who has a woman who only had 1-2 other men than the woman who had 100+ partners tho.
Hahahmm. Well, that's the key. A girl who hasn't been run through as much is higher value than one who has.
Sure. I should add that when I say they look best when they're younger... I should clarify: usually the case. Some women look better at 30/40s. Depends on her genes. But a man should NEVER pick a woman solely based on looks. Looks are a starting point, sort of like buying a car with a working engine is a starting point when car shopping. Ha ha.
@77five Oh, so you're going to tell men what we find attractive & what we don't? That's like me telling you which shoes you should like best. Don't be ridiculous. Also, if a guy finds a female attractive & she doesn't look like a grown woman then he's pedo. If he KNOWS she's underage and he pursues her he's also a pedo. It's not that complicated.
I would say its true, but for online dating. Its a statistical fact that women, even the below average ones, on apps like tinder only go after the top 20%, This is mostly because society props them up and makes them believe that they are tens when in fact they are twos.. Women refuse to admit this, and because of that we get these women who are single mothers multiple times over to multiple different fathers, and want average men to clean up the mess.
The sad thing about the above, is that a lot of men are willing to settle for used up women whose body count is 50 or more.. This is why i married a small town conservative girl, Why i married someone 9 years younger than me. I have zero time for a woman who is only willing to settle after riding the cock carousel for years.
As to your best years statement. Yet another thing women are either unwilling to admit or are just too blinded by their won ego to admit.. But the ages of 18 to 30 are her best years for having children. after 35 the risks for birth defects and miscarriages go up dramatically. And once you hit 40+ it gets WAY worse.
So for men that want children its definitely correct, For men that dont care to have children its not correct.
Any guy who thinks a womans “best years” is when she's young is sketchy and creepy to me. Best in what way? You thinking a human being is a left over is gross. Ugh…. Staying single REALLY does sound like the best option the more I learn about what men feel about women.
Women’s « passion » increase with years in most women… well maybe there is a pick … 30 maybe 🤔😁
When you find someone to share your deepest passion with you are lucky true
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I think the "trick" to a successful relationship is to find someone who loves you as much as you love them, and then find every way you can to value your partner. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of your partner.
Guys change the %'s often, but the overall idea that a portion of men get most of the female attention isn't wrong and is quite plain to see if you but pay attention.
Women dislike this because they don't want to appear shallow, even though they themselves might not be, enough women generally are.
What the questions asker wrote is BS, but the sentiment that a lot of men are left out and without care and affection is a serious problem I would say. One women should be concerned about rather than mock.
When you ask a question like this, most if not all of the women will simply deny the truth you expressed because they don't want to admit that they actually think this way and do this. Also, a substantial number of men, "white knights", think if they pander to women enough they will get to have sex with them. These are the guys that vote with the women on questions like this. I think that "white knights" are far more dangerous to men than women are in many instances, because the guy you just met and like may turn out to be one and stab you in the back.
Never trust women.
Trust men but verify.
Here is the OkCupid study: theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d
its quite hilarious how the same guy who goes around saying women expire at 30 and that men only want to date a woman in 20s also prances around saying 95% of men only date leftover undesirable women.
continue spreading your misogyny
Yes, but it's more like the top 15-20% of men, instead of 5%. But voted Agree anyway. I've seen reality and it's no as good as the phonies on here like you make you believe.
I agree, society used to be able to prevent this level of degeneracy but that has all eroded away. I'm not sure about the exact numbers though.
I see you're back again with yet more of your Trolling bollox! 🤣
I'm not sure if I agree or disagree with the statistics here, but if it's true then I guess that puts my husband in the top 5%! 😇
You gotta get married in your early 20's to get that from her, the guys who snooze are gonna lose. The last thing you want to do is wait and marry her at 35. Then you really are increasing your chances of getting a woman who's given herself to many, many men. She's ready to settle down and get old.
High quality don’t have to wait they have multiple options
I wouldn't say it's that bad, there are women out there who aren't shallow wretches who have no self-reflection. But if they know they have leverage they are going to utilize that leverage to get the best possible mate they can.
Stop with this superiority bs. I'm so sick of it. It's fluid. People can change and one man can be seen as not great by one women and great by another.
Lol i don't see any years in a long relationship or marriage as best
Sure. Why shouldn’t they?
although I don’t understand what you mean by left overs.
Everyone has their own opinion of who is in the top 5%
I'm 19 and the guys I've been with are probably in the top 50% from average to super hot and there are way more average I've been with.
You have just started your ride on on the CC.
I asked my husband this question.
"I mean if the other 95% of guys ask questions like that, then yeah I agree. Talk about how to lose in life."
So you agree.
I can’t believe you agree
If the girls I am getting are the leftovers, the rest of them must be truly spectacular.
I guess you could call it leftovers since I’ve never been anybody’s first but that’s life when you get older , we all have a past
If that were true we wouldn't see over 50% of the adult populations in relationships...
If it were true youd also see a little over 50% of men in denial on the poll
@RandomGuy1032 well facts are more reliable than opinions
Bruh, you watch too much BS youtube videos. Those men are just talking ish, dude.
That isn't the reality of the real world out there.
Ha! They can off their leftovers, but I'm not taking them. No thank you, ma'am!
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Oof! I totally disagree, my man. Those aren't her best years. Those are the years when she's young dumb. You want a more sophisticated and savvy woman. She adds more to your life that way.
Filmhuy93. You mean her being run through adds to your life?
Not that part; the part where she has had more opportunity to understand what men need and how to help take care of him. Unfortunately, that does require a certain amount of being "run through," but she would say the same about how hard it is for her to come to terms with the fact she isn't your first choice. She knows you've been inside other women; they don't exactly love that. But that awkwardness is all part of learning how to provide what your partner needs.
@msc545 I don’t go to clubs lol but that’s not even the point; it’s about the desirability of the person you meet. I can’t reliably find women I would I want to date, and especially not at a club. That’s the problem women have too. They can get guys, they can’t get guys they want. It’s a real struggle, man lmao
@msc545 Money= you need it to live a good life
Our body count= has zero affect on anything
Also, women aren't obsessed with men’s money. You gus used that as something to lire women in. You guys wanna pay for everything while women stay home. You guys see money as a way to control women. Thats why you feel threatened when a woman makes more thN you.
@77five @msc545 Ugh... this kind of argument is exactly why I didn't date earlier in life. All this shit seems to boil down to control. No thank you! #unsubscribe
Disagree a good 5% of guys aren't even dating anymore
Where did you derive those statistics from though?
Lol that’s what I thought. 👍
Send me an article on this if you can please.
It's just a statement designed to elicit a response.
Fair. I thought you would want to send me a study so I will for sure hear your perspective on it, but I will look it up myself.
Jesus - READ. I've posted it here multiple times. theblog.okcupid.com/a-womans-advantage-82d5074dde2d
You don’t know what the Pareto principle is?
I did just look it up. 👍 Also, I’m new on the website so I didn’t see it lol. No need to be rude. Also I won’t talk to you anymore because you’re rude and I respect myself. Have a nice day!
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