Asking for a friend. What more should a girl have?

[Anonymous]

She's got a good career, above average looks, fun, good sense of humour, kind , approachable, can keep a conversation going.
She's good at art , music , dancing, modelling, sports.
Topper of the her undergraduate degree (Dentistry).
All of these and yet never been in a relationship.

[Guy13]

It sounds like she is consumed with Self and others pick-up on it. It’s not so much that’s she’s “too good for me”. It’s either she is damaged, self-absorbed, or something I’m missing…

I know tons of professional 150,000-400,000 that would be all over a hot dentist 🦷

[Asker]

Not exactly, she isn't full of herself or anything like that. On the contrary she's very down to earth.

[Guy13]

You are a woman. You know nothing in this situation. What you say may or may not be accurate. What is accurate is that Resume is Single. You are a woman and not a good judge🤷🏻‍♂️ In this circumstance.
Think about it: by your description…If you were right…she would be married with 3 kids, one Oops, and adding on to house 🏡 accommodate the Oops.

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you set her up with one of your single friends?

[Asker]

Most of our friends are dating and whoever is left isn't her type.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s her type?

[Asker]

Someone who's fun, spontaneous, shared interests , good family values. Basically someone she can vibe with.

[BarryLiverstone]

Has she gone out with some of the single guys yet? Those things you described aren’t going to be seen on the surface. She will need to spend time with a guy and getting to know him to feel the vibe.

[Asker]

Two years ago she actually liked a guy and confessed her feelings. But it didn't go as planned. He kind of was an a-hole and didn't give her a straight forward answer.
She's never tested any waters after that

[BarryLiverstone]

Then tell your friend that she is holding herself back. I’m sure you have been out with a-holes yourself yet you still kept trying because if you fail to try you end up alone. Is there a reason she stopped trying?

[Asker]

For a while she wasn't over him. Honestly I don't think she's completely over him either. We've told her time and again that it wasn't the right guy. But I think she needs more time.

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh in that case why ask the question? You think she needs more time so it’s not about the single guys and vibing is it?

[BarryLiverstone]

But can I also ask truthfully. Is this about a friend of yours or is this about you?

[Asker]

In all honesty, that friend is me. I'm sorry. I don't know why I chose to hide it when I was asking it anonymously in the first place.
But I think you gave me the answer. Thank you

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Feel free to follow me if you want to know more. It seems like the guys around you are not what you want or you are held back by the a-hole and emotions

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you for apologizing. Better to be honest than hide things yk

[Asker]

☺️☺️

[LazerBean]

A good personality. Being someone who seems like they would be a good mother. Easy to get along with.

[Asker]

On the outside she may be perceived as being a little scary but she's a sweetheart. The definition of "looks like could kill you, is a cinnamon roll"

[LazerBean]

Even if that is true, first impressions are important. So that's going to go against her.

[DaveJord]

The ability to make time, to be emotionally and physically present with a relationship. I tried to date women with all these different hobbies and interests... but they all ended up being too busy or to involved in everything else to make time or seriously invest in a relationship.

[slatyb]

What is she doing to find a partner? Where does she live?

[Asker]

I don't know she isn't going out looking for something. But she's never been in a relationship before

[Sparkie460]

She sounds like she has everything she just hasn't found the right guy

[Anonymous]

Looking for a guy to marry not a guy to date.