I am a very introverted person. I grew up in a very conservative country so I only had male friends and don’t have have any experience with girls. I moved to Europe recently. I met a very nice girl in the gym , we talked and joked a few times so I asked her if we can meetfor a coffee sometime and that we should exchange numbers. she suggested exchanging instagram instead and we did so
This was 6 weeks ago
I want to be friends with her as I do believe I need some time before I start thinking of dating (I still get nervous around girls)
So , can I still text her? Did I wait too long and this is now going to be
If I can still text her , what should I say to indicate that this is a friend and that I am not trying to date her (at least for now )
This was 6 weeks ago
I want to be friends with her as I do believe I need some time before I start thinking of dating (I still get nervous around girls)
So , can I still text her? Did I wait too long and this is now going to be
If I can still text her , what should I say to indicate that this is a friend and that I am not trying to date her (at least for now )
What Girls Said
Easy there, ask her on a group day out with her and some of ur mutual friends! If there are none, invite her along with a few if ur close friends! Make sure they won’t tease u bout liking her cuz it might get awkward (trust me, it would). Maybe text her smth like “hey, me and {friend’s name} and {friends name} are going to hang out {insert day and time} if you wanna tag along?”
Good luck :)
Text her. Just tell her straight up what you want. She’ll be impressed by your honesty.
Tell her straight up what you’re looking for
Care her and try to get her close that's better then asking directly.