Is a guy not having a type a "turn off"?

[Anonymous]

How is it possible for a guy to not have a type? It seems really weird to me that there are guys out here who claim to not have a specific race, hair color, body type, etc that they are attracted to and prefer.

[Bre_0611]

I like to look at it as a to each their own kind of thing. My ex cheated on me with his exes before me that were absolutely horrific not just by appearance, but even as people🤢I constantly questioned him if his standards even existed or where his taste in women was and of course he was never able to say anything out of embarrassment.

Long story short, that was a big reason our relationship ended. I absolutely hate a man that just lays down or sticks their penises in just anything. That is the most disgusting thing ever to me and that alone will turn me off from a man. I absolutely judge a man based off of his exes.

[Noahzaid]

I have a specific type but they don’t feel the same.

I don’t feel attracted to white or black women

I have a thing for light brown or dark white.

black hair and black or light brown eyes.

I like short girls because I’m short.

I don’t feel attracted to fat or skinny girls.

basically My type is Arab

[SnowedIn]

It's possible to not have a type because then so many wonderful women aren't considered. People are individuals. If I had a type but she has no common sense, I wouldn't want to be locked into that type. Also, people change. Preferences change. Having a type does nothing.

[Summeroflove]

No. Long as you like someone you’re into them

[Jamie05rhs]

He does have preferences. He just doesn't want to call out the girls that he thinks are ugly because he doesn't want to hurt their feelings.
If you really want to reject a man because he has a kind heart and has empathy for others, then go right ahead, I guess. It's your life.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Funny enough, it's really weird for me that people do have a "type". So if you like brown haired men, would you reject a blonde? Or is that "type" just a preference? Still, I would still couldn't chose what I like more...

[aaron210419]

Men are often shamed for claiming they like a certain body type or physical attributes. In general though I think most men have an idea of what they'd like physically in a woman but don't limit themselves to any one particular "type"

[TheSpaceGnome]

Everyone who wants a relationship has a type, though this isn't just physical features, its also personality, hobbies, interests, goals, etc.

[Asker]

In this sense, I mean physical. How can a guy not have a certain type he likes physically?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Other than him being asexual or bisexual, I dunno. My type of woman (physically speaking) is round face, small chin, rounded nose tip, either big doe eyes or upturned lid squinty eyes, super thick scalp hair with bangs thats extra soft, and a petite body with big boobs, a small butt, mostly thin (hourglass), but not so thin that you see ribs or abs. Height I don't much care about, same for skin shade.

I've seen lots of variants of that combination.

[Anonymous]

it could signal apathy, indifference; but all the same, it could be a sign of an open mind.

[gary777]

we all have a type... dont want to go into detail cause I've got the wrong underwear on

[Asker]

Exactly, so how can a guy claim he doesn't have a type?

[gary777]

im worried if i tell you mine ill get 'excited' and ai have boxers on!

[Twalli]

I have preferences, but they're not really strong. It doesn't affect who I choose to date.

[dustybiker]

I think claiming to have a type is stranger.

[KrakenAttackin]

So that is a "turn off" or an "ick" for you? 😏

[Asker]

No it just makes no sense to me