Do women really want to be equals in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

So let me see if I understand

women are making their own money now and will lead with that when asked what they bring to the table yet still want men to pay for them

why is it that women who claim to hate gender norms and make more money than men refuse to take on the full financial burden in a relationship?
Men have been doing it for years now lots of men are with women who don’t work at all they don’t even have kids for her to watch

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Did any of you watch the video?

[bamesjond0069]

You're accepting their frame. Then whining about it.

Whether my girl makes money or not, I'm the head of the house and she's my property so that paycheck, that vehicle whatever is mine. I'll do as I please with it. So she might have a job but she only has money at 'my pleasure.

[Asker]

Get this man a new contract 😭💯👑

[bamesjond0069]

Lmao. You funny. Forget the sexual business part... but be a pimp and she a ho. Every penny goes in your hand and then you cut back any you WANT to cut back, it's not an entitlement.

[Lookingforthetruth]

lol at thinking you are the head of the household.

[Asker]

@Lookingforthetruth everyone isn’t a cuck my guy😂

[Lookingforthetruth]

Reality is your wife controls you once you get married. If she so wish it, she divorces and take half your wealth and the kids. It's also statistically shown that women make up 85% of consumers, meaning most men hand over their wealth to women and let them control the household. We then look at the fact that women can easily replace men far easier than men can women. Just lol at thinking the wife is property when women outlive men and men often die early due to stressful jobs that give them micro/macro heart attacks.

[bamesjond0069]

@Lookingforthetruth "your wife controls you once you get married" accepting women's frame. Not aware of any law that says I must marry.

"meaning most men hand over their wealth to women and let them control the household" again accepting women's frame. My girlfriend gets a tiny allowance and she earns every penny of it x10. I am in control of everything else. She also needs to account to me where her allowance is spent any time I ask and it's at my pleasure and I'll not let her access it if I so felt a reason to do so. Just because most men are simp ass cuck betas doesn't mean all men are.

[Lookingforthetruth]

You realize if you co-habit with a woman for a certain period of time it becomes a common law marriage with her still being able to seize assets from you, right? It's not women's frame but rather acknowledging that society and the justice system are all geared towards screwing over men and handing wealth towards women. It's also recognizing that despite men contributing most to the building of society, women are treated much better which is why men off themselves 4x more than women do.

[Asker]

@Lookingforthetruth that’s because most men don’t know how to protect their assets

[Asker]

@Lookingforthetruth what does that have to do with you being the head of the household?

[Lookingforthetruth]

You can't be head of the household if you get into a contract that subjugates you to the will of someone else. Also kind of weird being head of household when stats show most men don't get to decide the household money, die before their wives and ultimately work themselves to death trying to please their wife. @asker

[bamesjond0069]

@Lookingforthetruth "common law marriage" not valid in my state. I have an attorney I'm at zero risk.

"most men" there you go again. Why would you try and be most? I try to be the best. Dgaf about most men since most men are total lovers. Just say no. If you can't say no to a woman you deserve everything you get. Frankly your problem not mine.

[Asker]

@Lookingforthetruth that’s because our culture values beautiful women over women of character that says more about than it does about her why would you marry a woman like that? Without securing your assets? Only a fool would be that careless and this isn’t all the woman’s fault those men pick shitty garbage women just because they are cute or sexy these are low value men who think with their dicks

[Lookingforthetruth]

Ah no. You don't need to be a beautiful women to get these benefits. Even average women can get these women. And lol at talking about securing your assets. Most women blind side their husbands with divorces and the court system is set up that you must transfer your resources and support your wife or face going to jail.

Lastly, men don't get to pick really. Most of dating is controlled by women and they decide where a relationship goes. Men have very little dating power even though a lot of guys delude themselves otherwise. The reason a lot of guys pick poorly has to do with following factors: 1. desperation due to lack of female attention 2. Blindsided by biological urge for sex 3. Many of these women present themselves in a false way then reveal their true nature in marriage 4. lack of male experience to vet out these garbage women due to lack of dating experience. A lot of men would do better if they got nearly as much dating exposure as female but a lot of guys go years without dating and therefore lack the ability to pick up the signs.

[Asker]

@Lookingforthetruth that’s where we disagree only a weak man who can’t control his desires allows women to use him in such a way those type of women hate strong willed men because they can’t break/trick them

[Carolus]

If double standards were a person. All women want is to be in control over men, that includes paying for their bills irrespective whether they are capable to pay or not.

[Adaeva]

As long as I get what I want, why should I care if I equal in a relationship.

[Adaeva]

Thank you for the MHO.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

What do you mean by equals

[Asker]

Whatever feminist mean

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Then probably not

[TruthBringer]

No, they don't. They only say they do.

What women want is special privileges. Because if they truly did want equality, that would mean equal responsibility and equal treatment.

- You don't see women work in the sewers, working to get skyscrapers up, being on the power lines or anything that requires you to get dirty, exposed to the elements and strength. But they expect men to.

- You also don't see women get denied seeking refugee out of Ukraine. Whereas the men are denied exit and are expected to fight. I haven't heard a single woman complain about this.

- You don't see women jumping to protect the man, but expect the man to protect them when danger arises.

- Equality means that women get drafted in the military, but women complained about this.

- Equality also says that when you hit a man, expect to get hit back, but they don't want that.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/GtZDc2MChtc

As a bonus, here is a satire:

https://youtube.com/shorts/eaDqJohZM_A?feature=share

In dating, women intrinsically want a strong man being the leader and taking on the burdens of responsibility. So they can relax and focus on their femininity.

[Guy13]

No, women want to win.

[Asker]

I’m convinced This saying was invented for women
“Play stupid games win stupid prizes “

[Guy13]

Whine and Dine and Divorce for every Dime... ;-)

[inhua]

only part-time equality. not full-time equality.

[Kiran_Yagami]

No. Women want all the benefits of being a man with none of the responsibilities.

[Asker]

Women say they are strong and independent and make all this money but what good is it? What does it matter if you aren’t willing to take on the full financial responsibility of a relationship?

[Anonymous]

of course not. women still want to be asked out and paid for.

[USLegionary]

Only when it comes to spending your money