Is it unreasonable to be deceitful to single mothers about my intentions of wanting to settle with them?

[CreedOfIron]

I'm not going to sugar coat it... I lie to women I perceive as having lower self esteem and being more vulnerable in order to bed them and I don't stick around as promised either. In the past I'd feel guilty about doing this however with my negative experiences when I let my guard down and decide to settle with a woman long term and put my trust in her, it has always backfired through no fault of my own. This has unfortunately lead me to perceive women as a form of physical etertainment whom one should not overtly humanise and invest genuine emotion and attachment towards, and yes I mean unfortunately because I'd hate for my mother, sister, cousins and friends to be treated and viewed this way.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a friend of mine he's the exact same way. While I think it's kind of wrong, she's a single mom so she's kind of leftovers now anyhow. I mean she made some questionable choices that have landed her in the position she's in. I guess what I'm saying if you aren't going to do it to her another guy likely is. Because she doesn't exercise good judgement.

[Tyrael]

I think it's wrong to put more pain out into the world just because you suffered pain. You should strive to make life better, and in turn I think you'll get better.

[Anonymous]

Go for it. Be as deceitful as you can. Because single moms don’t deserve any respect unless they’re stripping at the club or hooking on Onlyfans. Pump and dump them

[fonduegirl]

Do you seriously expect us to validate your behaviour

[LazerBean]

You're asking is deception bad? Yeah, it is.

[CreedOfIron]

Not quite as abstract as that though, is it darling?

[LazerBean]

It's not abstract at all, its flat out wrong.

[QuietVerbena]

That’s terrible

[CreedOfIron]

Tbh I know it is...

[QuietVerbena]

Are you hot enough to pull it off?

[CreedOfIron]

Evidently so on my end, but only you can answer whether you find me attractive or not 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[QuietVerbena]

Fair enough lol. You shouldn’t do that though. You wouldn’t want a guy doing that to your sister.

[CreedOfIron]

I wouldn't, you're quite right but its more of a way to protect myself from hurt than maliciously hurt others

[QuietVerbena]

I understand. Still hurts them though.