I'm not going to sugar coat it... I lie to women I perceive as having lower self esteem and being more vulnerable in order to bed them and I don't stick around as promised either. In the past I'd feel guilty about doing this however with my negative experiences when I let my guard down and decide to settle with a woman long term and put my trust in her, it has always backfired through no fault of my own. This has unfortunately lead me to perceive women as a form of physical etertainment whom one should not overtly humanise and invest genuine emotion and attachment towards, and yes I mean unfortunately because I'd hate for my mother, sister, cousins and friends to be treated and viewed this way.
Is it unreasonable to be deceitful to single mothers about my intentions of wanting to settle with them?
