Yes, it's common. Honestly for me it depends on the women and circumstances.
I met or talked with a lot of women, who felt were honest, descent and good people. But for whatever reason it didn't work out and it fine. No stress or drama.
But then there are these bad girl types, that you just feel are leading you on. Sending mixed signals, trying to play hard to get. They act like they are not, or not aware of what they are honestly doing. Which I can accept, that maybe they are unaware or doing it unintentionally... but none the less I feel obligated to inform then of how their actions make me feel. How its not appreciated... and those type are ones that get passed, and usally end up blocking you.
They are also same types that can make themselves out as the victim within any scenario, always act like they did nothing wrong, act like they are ones that rejected him, and then say he got weird... when honestly the guy doesn't care who rejected who.
What these types of women never do, is take any responsibility for their contributions and actions, that donated failure of relationship. They never step back and say,
"yeah, I guess I was kind of a jerk to this guy. I did lead him on, and I did send mixed signals, so I guess I can see why he's kinda upset... because I totally lead him on."
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When you turned him down did he insult you or get unreasonably angry? Nobody likes being rejected so seeing some negative reaction from someone is to be expected. However he called you names or threatened you that’s a different story.
It sound like he was just really liked you and is very disappointed but he will get over it. You didn’t do anything wrong rejecting him unless you yourself were rude. Also asking him to “just be friends” is a veiled insult to most men by the way. Not sure if you said that but I hope you didn’t.
Anyway if the shoe is on the other foot e. g. guy rejected a girl and she blocked him then would any guy get away with saying “oh I rejected this girl and she blocked me. Isn’t that rude?”
Nah of course not. He knows that seeing you on social media or whatever is going to be unpleasant for him. He doesn’t owe you any attention. None. Since you aren’t interested in him why waste time thinking about how he feels anyway. At least he is making it clear he doesn’t want to be an orbiter and that’s smart.
Yes of course multiple times and guys in my country can't handle rejection well they will either beg to date and ask for a chance or become rude and block that's coping mechanism for them to deal with the pain of rejection so what you dealt with isn't uncommon at all he would not like to stay in touch with you which is understandable
It’s a defence mechanism; and pretty common. Might just be to help him feel better so he doesn’t have to have contact. I’d rather be blocked than harassed for simply saying no
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Depends on how you rejected him. If he’s butt hurt because you were honest but nice and did not lie to him or string him along or anything. So that he can find someone who is into him
Then this is his problem. If you were a bitch to him. That’s another story.It's not uncommon, but it's certainly inappropriate. It's not your fault. What it tells you, is that you FOR SURE made the right decision in rejecting him. Guys who can't handle rejection appropriately are bad news. Every time.
Well, nobody likes rejection, just like how you don't want to be rejected from a job. When they don't hire you for the job, you get upset because you feel like you wasted your time. It's the same thing.
Men do it more because the man is expected to approach women. Women don't want to approach men, and to be frank, I understand why; it sucks. It sucks being the one who has to prove yourself to someone.
It's not your fault. It's a defense mechanism. The guy shouldn't be rude to you, but I get blocking. Is it the nicest thing in the world? No. But rejection hurts. (Doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.) Blocking can be part of the process to deal with rejection.
If you reject him, why do you care? If that's his way of moving on, then respect his wishes and let him have his space. Nobody should be forced to see you everyday after knowing how you feel about them, just like you're not forced to be with anyone you don't like. Let the man live his life.
Why would he need to communicate with you or you communicate with him. He wanted something different to you, you rejected him, he's moved on.
Can't say I ever go as far as to block someone, but I did delete numbers after it was clear things weren't going to work out.It's common, most guys have a hurt ego after you reject them and then they go and show their ugly side lol
Just be glad, you dodged a bulletGuys always are respectful to me after I reject them.
Yes, to both questions🤣
Either way, don't worry about it, so long as nothing you did was done maliciously. Guys can't cry, anger is the only acceptable emotion. You made your choice, now he gets to make his. Don't take it personal.
I don't know but he block u because u rejected him I don't think your it's your fault
If you didn't do anything wrong then, it's not.
That's really more of a feminine behavior than male, but yes; it's common.
A lot of men get very easily butthurt, so I'd say it's pretty common.
Why do you even know? I mean why would you care?
Yes it is and I can't blame a guy for doing that.
Stop having an overinflated ego and get over it
It's definitely pretty common, What else do you expect him to do after you reject him?
Guys always do that. Not your fault.
This is common to happen.
Why wouldn't he? You rejected him, most men don't like the friend zone.
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