What would you do in my place about this girl?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl I like and her friends are telling me she likes me too for a long time. We got closer and i asked her out and she said yes. We still haven’t been out cuz always one of us is busy but since i asked her out we kissed few times and i think the kisses were fine and pretty long, after first she wanted to hold my hand and was kind of close or affectionate all the time. As i mentioned her friends are telling me she likes me, she could have other guys who approched her before me but she waited for me, she was sad that i didn't show up to place where she was and she thought i’ll come there too. They were saying these things for months before i asked her out and etc. I thought By this time it is just matter of time before we’ll be exclusive, that we go out few times and i’ll tell her what’s up. But Last weekend we were at the party and she was a bit distant than usuall. She was almost all the time with her friend (female) so we spent really short time together. And those her friends who were always saying how much she wants me started saying things like she is complicated, she doesn’t know what she wants, they’re confused of her and maybe i should give up on her. So now i am really confused snd guess i’ll go to her and ask her what is going on. I’ve had no doubts we’ll be together but now i dont know. What do you think is going on?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I swear, you people always seem to enjoy complicating things and situations that are actually simple and straightforward. And the worst thing is that you aren't even teenagers, but full grown adults in their 20s and 30s and even 40s.

Just be clear to her - does she want to date and get into a relationship or not? If she does, then start to actually date instead of hanging out with friends wasting time and second-guess everything.

She doesn't want or is hesitant - then thank you and good bye, find someone else who actually wants to get something concrete and not play stupid games.

[joeldalton]

Take her out on a date. I find it impossible to believe you can't find a single block of 3 hours where the two of you are free in a week.