Guys, Would you still date a female even though you know your mom dislikes her?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes I would just as long as she doesn’t treat me like her mom treats her , That’s the problem with most girls is they usually have Mommy and Daddy issues , and are fucked up in the head over it and usually take it out on their man when he is trying to be loving and supporting of her she uses him as a punching bag , My parents had issues as well but I don’t Take it out on a girl that I am giving
My heart to , What you girls need to realize for love 2 grow between you and your partner you have to make each other your number 1 priority over everyone meaning your parents your kids and your friends or it isn’t going to work , The only person that should be over your partner is God if you believe in God but choosing those people over Your partner is going to leave you single again , If your Mom is a piece of shit , she is a piece of shit period , I dated girls that had parent issues and the second I agreed with them I was the piece of shit , that shit isn’t normal and it isn’t your partners fault why your parents are pieces of shit , So stop taking it out on your partner and start prioritizing your partner over everyone , your partner has got your back as long as you got theirs it has to go both ways , if not you are a selfish person that only cares about themselves , Your parents are probably selfish people like mine were , I never choose my parents over a girl that is my partner , if my parents don’t like the girl I am in a relationship with too bad , it’s my life not theirs , if my parents don’t want to see me happy they can go fuck themselves , I just watched that Christmas movie again last night the Family Stone , That family was a bunch of assholes to Sarah Jessica Parker , and the brother going after his brother’s girlfriend my brother would be knocked the fuck out if he tried sticking his dick into a girl I am dating whether my family Liked her or not for me , That’s my decision not theirs , I wouldn’t tolerate that shit with my family I would knock them all the fuck out , So yes I would date a girl that didn’t like her Mom just as long as she prioritized me and didn’t treat me like a punching bag

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. Because of my mom doesn’t like her there has to be a really good reason. My mom is a good person, she’s always taken care of us. She’s always been there for me even when she was raising me alone for a while. So I trust her. Women can sense something about other women that men can’t, just the same as men sensing things about other men. So if she doesn’t like her there has to be something worth looking at, it’s not something petty. Now if I was in my 20’s I probably would have because at that age I knew it all just like everyone else thinks they know it all lol

Guy13 · Answer

Nope because I have known my mom much longer. And, she has been around a lot longer than I and sees things that I do not. Mom has my best interest at heart, however, it does not mean that i can't think for myself. She raised me to do that exceedingly well.

AviatorTom · Answer

Sure, why not? My father did not like the guy my sister was dating, and eventually married. He made no qualms about it. When my sister asked him about it, his reply was, "I don't have to like him, you do."

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I would have to know why my mom doesn't like her at first before making my decision. I don't really let my mom has say on stuff like this but I really want to know why my mom don't like her. Did she like acted rude towards my mom than that a clear red flag the relationship probably wouldn't work especially if I be scared if she acts rude towards me but insulting my mom is never good.

Now is she absolutely innocent and my mom just found something really awful to complain about her like her skin tone or religion background I would immediately still dare her and apologize for the horrible hospitality.

NathanDavis · Answer

that really depends

while my mother does not have a say like this, so determinant in my decisions nor gets to dictate my life... it is very difficult for her to just dislike someone unless, she has very good and valid reasons... lol

at least, I would consider those reasons but... I would not make it a definitive factor, no

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

Yes. Some mothers are bitches. Tho, it would also be suspicious because if the mother is a bitch, she'll turn the daughter as one as well. While if the daughter is the bitch one, there are a lot of chances that the mother will not be one so that's why she dislikes her daughter.

Anyway, I would be willing to meet her and learn about her but I would be more on guard.

Messianic_Monk · Answer

It depends on wether or not my mother could handle me being with that person. My mom has not always been thrilled with the women I've met but has encouraged me to pursue some relationships even if she didn't like the other party. If she was not willing to? Then I'd probably bail.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Absolutely.

My mom's opinion has zero impact on who I pick, and I would always defend my girlfriend against my mom if she talked shit about her or was critical in any way.

Or at least I would if I had a girlfriend and my mom started shit over it.

My mom doesn't actually care who I date, and I'm picky and have not found that special someone yet.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Its mandatory, No mother thinks that any female is good enough for her son. But to answer your question, I did dat and later marries a female that my mom did not like. I have been married to her for 50 years now.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

That's a hard one. My mom is a nut job, but she's also got a really good mother's intuition. I guess it wouldn't necessarily stop me, but I'd probably be extra careful about getting to know her if we were dating seriously.

JDavid25 · Answer

Nah, I'm really close to my mother, and I trust her judgment.. My mother is usually easygoing with new people coming around, so if she doesn't like her, then there most likely is a fair reason for it..

Price511 · Answer

If my mom hates her, she’s the one. My mom is an absolute asshole who told me to go kms and gave me a bottle of pills to do so, so if my mom hates her then she’s the one for me.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes lol I dated a girl with full tat coverage and a fully installed grill. She was so sexy and so trashy. I think fondly back to her. She always treated me with respect. Her husband? Not so much. Lol

exitseven · Answer

I bet my mother would not like anyone I ever dated.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes. My mom hated every woman I've dated, so I'd be forever single if I waited for my moms approval

RavVid · Answer

My mother has nothing to say about who I want to have sex with. But I would listen if I was thinking of marrying.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Family and friends are usually right about that kinda stuff so it'd be interesting... But I don't think I would need their help I'd probably see it before them...

DavidRaul · Answer

Well that would never happen though. My mom would trust me with my choice and yes i would still date her

Berethor · Answer

I want to have my mother's approval, as she wish me well, but it can happen.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would and I would still love her.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Depends if there is an actual reason for disliking her

KrakenAttackin · Answer

It would depend on why she disliked her. If not was just normal female cattiness, no problem. If she had a deeper sense of a problem I would listen more acutely.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I might... it really depends on what my mom's specific objection is.

Mybeachlife8888 · Answer

I don’t think I’ve ever let my moms opinion influence whether or not I would date a girl.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yeah, I'm sure my mother wouldn't have like the fact my exes both got me quite drunk when I was 16

Redstang88 · Answer

Been a long time since I cared what my mom thought

VikingWarLord · Answer

Your boyfriend's mom thinks you're a little Hussey huh?

Anonymous · Answer

Not likely. Because while my mom can be a bit flakey about certain things she is a VERY accepting person. So if my mom didn't like her that would give me pause.

Shinzu · Answer

For my mom not to like her there must be some reason, I would investigate and make the best decision

Cire71 · Answer

Absolutely. My mom would have to trust my judgments and support me. She can voice her opinion. But until she really knew her a d my feelings then wouldn't stop me dating her

Jhunitor · Answer

Yes I would. But if my mother don't want to see her, I can accept that.

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