Is it true girls want the guy who doesn’t give them the attention?

[Anonymous]

Pretty girls that already get a lot of attention

Yes it’s true

No it’s not

[JamesDiaz11]

First off, don't listen to the girls- they don't know what they want, and won't tell you even if they did.

Women want a guy out of their league to some degree. Guys who readily give them attention communicate to them that they're at/ below her league; so, they're not appealing to her- she knows she can easily have them without work. Furthermore, with as eager as they are to get with her they've communicated their relative low value compared to hers.

So, women will shoot for guys who do readily not give them attention, especially if they are the type of guy other women find appealing. They'll test the waters, and if the guy passes this test by giving her minimal effort (not immediately thanking god a girl is talking to him) he'll intrigue her more. Women don't "take a hint," they'll become entranced with this guy who has so much confidence that he's not wowed by her charms (the same that have all these other guys obsessed).

This is why during the courting phase, as a guy, you must not show your hand. Regardless of how much you like her, do not shower her with texts, respond right away, tell her you love her, etc. This will all communicate that you're below her value, and she can probably do better. Besides, it's no fun. Women love the drama of not knowing how he feels- where she's thinking about it to the point where SHE falls for you. The more she questions how you feel about her, the more she's thinking about you, and the more obsessed she'll become.

Once a girl becomes this obsessed, and admits she loves you (only then) can a guy reciprocate, but NEVER let her feel she's completely safe. Always have her know you can replace her, or get a side girl if she doesn't give you her all. Safe guys are boring to them.

[ZackBan]

It's not about attention. It's about assertiveness.

Women like a man who doesn't give a fuck about anyone's opinion on him who lives life on his own terms and only pays attention when he's truly intersted as opposed to pretending he cares about every minor detail in her life just because he wants to feel loved.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I like a guy and that's that. I don't really know if he likes me

[Anonymous]

Those guys make it easy to know which ones to ignore.

[coachTanthony]

Yes but not on purpose. Women like it when a man is busy for real and not pretending and playing games of not giving them attention. There is a big difference.

[Guy13]

It is a balancing act but attention and no attention have a place in the Game of Love.

[Avicenna]

Sometimes it’s true for a limited period of time

[boggboss]

Depends on the girl but mostly yes women don't tend to want a guy that acts like a doormat

[Anonymous]

If she enjoys your attention it's not really you that she's attracted to man.

[inhua]

only if he's handsome.

[Teriyaki70]

Maybe the immature ones

[In_Trance]

Not always