Girls, What do you think about a guy like this? He's more manly than the other guys I know?

[Anonymous]

He is tall, strong, has a shaved head and a rugged beard. He asked me out confidently and we've been on 9 dates so far. One time, he noticed that the hinge on my cupboard door was broken and he fixed it. Another time, he noticed that my tire was flat and changed it. Another time, he moved a heavy couch for me. The last time, he mischievously lifted my shirt and exposed my belly and I smiled and hit him playfully. I have a 90 day rule but he is so charming and did all that really manly stuff for me and I feel safe and protected so if he wants me he can take me right? Or should I wait it out?

[DollAlone]

If he has no problem waiting the 90 days then he is a keeper. The purpose of that rule is that men will eventually let their true colors shine through if they aremt getting what they want sexually from a girl. So make sure to stick to that rule. Also keep in mind that there are other ways to sexually satisfy someone without sex. Use your hamds and mouth, or just remain flirty amd keep him in suspense. The wait will build into sexual pressure in turn will be intemse sex when it finally happens and well worth it

[sage2021]

Stick to your 90 day rule! Guys like a chase, so this is like a chase to him. I take it he already knows the prize he gets at the end of the 90 days.

I think he sounds like a good guy. I like the way he helps you out. That is rare to find a guy that does stuff like that. He's a keeper! 🌹

[BlueScorpio]

Continue getting to know him, it's only been 9 dates, not 9 years. A lot of guys will take on the challenge and wait a little longer to see when things turn sexually. Make him wait, make yourself wait and really get to know each other.

[kylee2437]

Don’t bend your standards. Guys will literally do anything for you if they want to get into your pants, so make him wait the 90 days and see if it’s worth it

[Asker]

I think he's patient. He doesn't force me to do anything I'm not ready for, he hasn't even brought up the topic, he's just complimented me when we're out. But you're right I should wait. Should I have let him expose my belly though?

[kylee2437]

@asker if it doesn’t make you uncomfortable, then let him be playful, but don’t lower your standards because he’s been showing signs of care. That can go away if he’s only around for the sex

[Asker]

I spoke to him about it and he said he's cool with that and he doesn't mind doing other things with me, and he said he's cool with just talking to me until I'm ready because he likes my company. He asked me if he could kiss my neck and my belly and I said yes.

[kylee2437]

@asker just remember keep to your standards.

[CoolCatMar1]

Heheh

[rosek]

I never advise basing whether you are physical with someone on some arbitrary date or timeline. I would suggest basing it on whether you feel safe and secure. Your safety and security will change depending on the person. This isn't a one-size-fits-all situation.

[Multi_personality]

Why are you gonna break your own rule for someone who helped you in a few things?

Dates - are always sweet and panties dropper but is that the real you and him

If he really wants you and respect you he will wait the 90 days.