I'm a girl and I have a female friend. I'm positive she's not in love with me or anything, but she tells lies about me to guys who she finds out likes me or whom I like. I think she does it to put them off me and sabotage my relationships. Why? She's straight.
This is not a friend or true friendship. This is wolf in sheep's clothing pretending to be a friend when in fact they are your competition/enemy. It's quite clear she is jealous of you or just doesn't want to see you doing better than her. There's something going on with her or in her life that she's not happy with and the only way to feel good about herself or situation is to tear you down. I would watch out with people like this, that jealousy/envy can turn into murderous rage. We already heard about the recent case of Shanquella Robinson who's friends turned on her and killed her out of jealousy. Some people will keep you close to just to teat you down cause that's all they have.
You need to call this behavior out and tell her if this does not change then then friendship is over. If you don't see her changing at all, then cut this person and friendship out of your life for the sake of your safety and well being.
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She’s not ur friend bro, she’s fake and jealous. Don’t be her friend. Usually they do it because they want the guy to like her instead and she’s jealous that these guys like you and not her. Say bye bye before she ruins something good.
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Some people are super protective and processive of their freinds. They really love hanging out with you and being freinds with you and spending time with you... but they know that if you meet someone and fall in love you will have less time to spend with them. And that will make them lonely, so they tend to get super jealous of love interests, because they see them as a threat to the friendship.
What do you so about it?
Well, you can talk to your friend about it, but don't expect her to admit to anything or be able to stop herself from doing it again.
All you really can do is prepare your romantic interest for it. Tell them that you think your friend, who you love so much, is the processive jealous type that sabotages your relationships. So don't take anything she says about you seriously.
The only other thing you can do is not bring her around your love interests, and/or talk to her about it, and if necessary, distance yourself from the friendship. Because chances are if you feel this way, then she is crossing boundaries and it's not healthy behavior.The sad reality is our friends are supposed to have our back, Right ? Ultimately, this is about the Company one keeps and one's ability to catch the warning signs or red flags. What "supportive affirmations" should we be listening for from our "friends"?
"Girl, he is not good enough for you".-What's the "But" when your romantic partner has been denigrated by friend? Meanwhile word gets back OR you have no clue that this "friend" and your romantic partner were chatting or flirting.-And if friend denigrates him in front of you then she will denigrate you in front of him too (the things I could tell you/you don't know) If friend denigrates or gossips then red flag. Company we keep.
All of a sudden your Time becomes much more valuable and she needs you. If this increases it is good, right... BUT "I would have been there for you... I don't know why she wasn't... we would have made her go... like I told you earlier, it sometimes can be about her in every moment... I don't care for the limelight so we are good fit together"
I know she models but man... just from the questions I get from the other girls. They want to know what you've got. I'm sure Alana is sweet too but you have all kinds of options... Nicole was asking me about you two... I told her that you and Alana have know her two weeks right?
BUT "I can't believe he violated your trust... It had to be a weak moment but I'm sorry (likely some hand on shoulder then kind of thing). If your stud muffin friend thinks one-night stands are fine then he has no regard for anyone else in his circle, period. Company we keep.
She jelly and wants you all to herself whether it's romantically or just a best bud in my opinion
I had exactly the same problem many MANY years ago. Right now for her, it is both a Sport and a fixated Mind set (If I'm sad and depressed, she (you) will be too)). If she is single, that means you must be single and she will be working very hard to make sure of that. BUT, if she gets a B. F. guess what, she will put even More energy into keeping you single Still. Why? because she be getting off from seeing you in a sad state that she was before she got a B. F. She be experiencing a power trip from controlling your dating status. Time to change a friend anonymous, she is not good for you now and she be even worse for you later.
It sounds like she's very jealous of you. I had a friend like this in the past, she would always try to sabotage my friendships with other people. She put me in unsafe situations.
It took me a very long time to realize that she was envious of me. That's a very dangerous type of relationship to have with someone. Please end this friendship or at least be super cautious.anyone that backstabs is not a friend, if it is unintentional. pschologically.. you'll have to do some digging as to why, people will do stupid things... and think they are right about it.
I don't understand the "straight" part... you aren't?
She's secretly (or not so secretly) jealous of you. She's either jealous of your qualities (prettier, nicer body, better hair, who knows?) or she is jealous of any and every male attention you get. Do you get more male attention than her? Do you get attention from hotter guys than she does? Or, she's a narcissist because narcissistic or histrionic women tend to do this to other women and sneak around. They view other women as a threat and want to be the ONLY one getting attention- hence the sabotage. Distance yourself from her immediately. Don't confront her because she's probably be sneaky in that too.
Because you've chosen a friend who clearly hates you. Lol.
She's prob jealous
She is jealous of you. She wants a guy for herself. I bet she thinks you are more beautiful than her
Doesn’t mean she’s gay. Female friends will do this when they see you get all the attention instead of them.
Are you straight though? She may be curious however? Maybe she is just another jealous female…..
Ask her why. Communication is super important in any type of relationship including friendship. Although she sounds like an immature bad friend to you.
She probably wants them for herself. It's. It's not uncommon for things like that to happen
Their could be a few reasons what maybe she feels like you give him more attention than you do her or she's just jealous you have someone or maybe she wants him for herself
Dont really need an answer, no real friend would do that.
Some people dislike happiness and try to ruin good things for others.
Why is someone like this even your friend anyway?
It's because she has never had a true orgasm.
Jealousy and she’s not a good friend.
Because it's Not a friend.
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