Why would someone call me the n word when I'm mixed, when people always tell me that I'm gorgeous? Does racism have anything to do with beauty?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Let me answer that with an analogy. To a woman that is only attracted to guys over 6 feet 5'11" is short. To a guy that only dates women 100lbs. A 120lbs is fat. And to a person who racist. Black is not attractive. Not even half black. But none of these make it unattractive the opposite gender at large. So you have a choice. You can obsess about what some small segment of that gender thinks of you, or just worry about what those who really get to know you think of you. Because the reality of life is you're never going to reach an age were people don't make ridiculous judgements.

[Anonymous]

Anyone of any color (Including black) who still uses the n word is a moron.

Don't listen to it.

I think Mixed women are really beautiful personally.

[Asker]

Awwww. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.
I have a Mixed Race son as well and I think he's the greatest person in the world.

[Asker]

Wow. That is really cool to hear.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I'm White but I pretty much raised him myself and it would break my heart if anyone called him some racial slur. I've always been very protective of him and it makes me angry just thinking about it. I'm sorry if people disrespected you.

[Asker]

Thank you. I'm actually still a teenager, and go to a racist school.

[Opinion Owner]

Aww, I feel for you.
My son is 15 and his school seems ok, but I guess there's still some ignorant people out there.
These days when people say racist things they're usually jealous and trying to bring you down. Mixed women are very interesting, beautiful, unique, and attractive, and that's a fact.

[Asker]

Then why would a 16 year old white boy tell me that? Can he still be jealous?

[Opinion Owner]

If a White girl called you the N word it would most likely be jealousy because she wants to be somebody other than herself, and she doesn't like you getting attention. If a white boy called you the N word it's most likely because his parents are racists (He was raised to be ignorant) or he's just a terrible person who hasn't matured. Teenagers can be pretty hurtful sometimes, but high school is temporary. Try not to base your opinion of yourself or White guys in general on this experience.

[Opinion Owner]

He may just be a hateful person or an idiot.

[Asker]

Okay. I won't.

[Lexi_87]

Some people are just natural born assholes.
When it comes to beauty there's not set race, shade. There's many black and mixed raced women who are model just like there's models of every race and all of them are beautiful in their own way.
You know yourself you a beautiful and have self worth so. Don't let what some random insecure loser get to you and put you down.

[Asker]

Thank you!!!

[FilmGuy93]

Different people have different perceptions of beauty… you might be extremely attractive woman to a lot of people, but you’ll still just be an n-word to assholes who want to see you that way

[KneeDragger]

Easy, they are jealous. People can suck, so be more mature and don't let it bother you.

[Asker]

Thank you for the amazing comments. This is exactly what I need.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

It's 2022 almost 2023 if anyone is racist nowadays it's because because they are morons.

Mixed women are absolutely beautiful!

[Asker]

Thank you!!!

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

You're very welcome. Hows life been treating you? Did you ask your crush to Homecoming or will you ask him to prom?

[Asker]

Ha... Yeah no. I think it's safe to say that it will never work out between us two. Things are just... complicated. But life's been treating me pretty good for the most part. How about you?

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Aww why would it never work out between you two? 😕 I understand it being complicated. Life's had its ups and down.

[Asker]

His friends, environment, my friends, school, the two grades apart...

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I understand. What year is he? What year are you?

[Asker]

I'm in 8th, he's in 10th. Everybody makes fun of us.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I understand that. Why do they make fun of you two? You can DM me if you'd like since we are filling up the replies.

[Asker]

Sure.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

You will have to follow me and send me a message. I'm not a high enough XP yet to send messages.

[Asker]

I'm not either... Why don't you answer the other question I ask?

[Asker]

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[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I can do that

[bean2k21]

News flash: not everyone goes to Woke University.

[MiamiMadness]

A racist won’t see past the color, just keep shining girl and let them burn in anger.

[dorianheath]

People are racist no matter how beautiful you are - it’s not about you, it’s about them being racist