First sleepover at my boyfriend's home; Any advice appreciated?

[Anonymous]

We are both 26, met on hinge in June and made things official in late August; our first-ever sleepover will take place this Friday until Saturday.
Next week we also plan to have a sleepover from Saturday until Christmas day, as his family has invited me to Christmas brunch.
I have been to his home three times, and we have been in his bed and bedroom, so I'm familiar with the place but have never slept over, and this is our first ever serious relationship. With that being said, any advice? Any tips?

[SnowedIn]

So, of this question is about sex, be safe, and don't be so loud that the rest of the house knows about it.

If it's what you should do to be a good guest:

• Bring a small gift to the mom (flowers, wine, chocolate)
• Make your bed
• Leave whatever room you're in better than you found it
• Follow house rules even if they're not stated (using coasters, taking your shoes off, etc.)
• Converse with different members of the family
• Offer to help with dishes or cooking
• Follow the family's lead at the dinner table with stuff like napkins, utensils, passing food

Enjoy! Sounds really fun!

[Asker]

Thank you very much!! Thankfully he owns his home, so it will be 2 of us.

[SnowedIn]

That's so awesome! This is a smile story!

[Anonymous]

Put a pillow between the wall and the headboard. Lock the door. When outside your boyfriend's room dress appropriately. If you feel uncomfortable being f*cked because his family will hear, put on a movie or music and suck your boyfriend off or just have jerk off as you twerk your butt or look lovingly up at him as he jerks off over your tits.

Accept that people have different religious and political views.

[rienna888]

Umm just be positive and be very nice to everybody

[JBlade]

Advice? If it's a sleepover, then you are just hanging out and spending time together. That is unless there are other intentions.

[jshm2]

Be a good guest, and don't put out just yet.

[Anonymous]

i assume he was the one who asked you out, slid into your dms

[spartan55]

Have you had sex yet?

[Asker]

No, we have fooled around, but no sex just yet...

[spartan55]

Ooohhh... so there is that hanging over everything. Are you planning on doing it?

[spartan55]

This may help you.

www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Good-House-Guest

[Asker]

Thank you!! And No, I'm not sure we are both ready; however, last time, I did bring some condoms and so forth to keep at his home, just in case.

[spartan55]

Lots of pressure...

[Gent207-2]

26 year olds don't have sleepovers...