A girl loves a guy to have a secure lifetime and future with him. But a guy loves a girl to have his physical desires satisfied temporarily. Agree?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I agree with this

No, I don't agree with this

[clampfan101]

Depends how how mature they are.
Mature men and women want a secure lifetime relationship with more than physical desires in mind.

[Anonymous]

Highly disagree lol I don’t love my boyfriend for his money and he doesn’t love me for our sex life.

[Asker]

I don't mean that a girl loves a guy for money. She usually loves him for the loyalty that he can provide her but a guy loves a girl mostly for his physical desires until he finds someone better

[Opinion Owner]

To me having a lifetime and future secure means money, but if you mean loyalty then sure, that’s definitely an aspect as to why I love my boyfriend but there’s many other reasons. On the other hand, for you to suggest that my boyfriend mostly is with me for sex until he finds someone better would be you saying that I’m not good enough to be a wife, only a sexual partner and to me that’s not only insulting but really sad to say. But all that tells me is that you must’ve had some really devastating past relationships for this to be your thought process and I’m sorry you went through whatever trauma of being used that you went through.

[Asker]

I don't say it relates to all guys or your boyfriend/ husband. It relates to most of the guys

[Opinion Owner]

Well the unfortunate thing about your post is that you failed to specifically state that you don’t think it relates to all guys. You just cast your net out there for any and every man to fall under, and that just isn’t fair. I can’t even agree that it applies to most men, because those men using women for sex 9/10 are not in full blown relationships with them. They are stringing them along and/or in a friends with benefits situation and that’s all.