Is wanting to die single bad?

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Honestly, that’s what I want. No relationship. No dating. Nothing.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

yes and no.

It's a question of motivation, not the conclusion. Coming out of sadness and despair... that hopeless feeling many get, especially this time of year... that's no way to feel. Lots of people die single, most women do because their husbands die first.. sometimes all their kids do. Some women never marry, as well as some men. Our society has made it really hard to find a mate... possibly on purpose, but maybe by side effect of poor social choices and child rearing and social decay. We are a the worst trained generation probably in history... and it's frustrating.

I ran from relationships and every female that gave me notice, leaving them baffled, probably thinking something wrong with them... except for ones that were so screwed up they fit my model of my broken self, and I wasn't the wiser to run. I ran and affronted love and clung to what was poison and used me... for long time. My training... was shame! I had to suffer... to learn... of myself.

The value of relationships... including the failures... is in learning about yourself... growing as a human being. We want something, but it isn't always so easy to get. There's power in those hormones and emotions of youth to propel you, you have something to give to others, maybe even a special person. You have value in life.. to love... and if you weren't here, some other person may end up being alone, unloved, hurt... if not for you and the difference you made in their life. You can add value in every moment you are functioning out of your loving heart, to the lives of others... single or married.

With that viewpoint, looking to add value in every engagement, as opportunities arise, you don't have regrets and you are acting out of love in your heart rather than fear and sadness. That's a better life. That's what I aim to do. That's what Christ taught, and so many others. Functioning like that opens doors to relationships, where you can learn more about yourself and others... and grow.

AmeerX · Accepted Answer

Hello, I just saw your question. Umm I haven't dated or had a relationship or anything like you and sometimes I also feel like you too. And I am almost your age so I understand you feel you are left behind because I feel that way too but please please understand you should not feel this way.

If you are depressed or stressed then please talk to anyone close to you.

You're not ugly either if that's make you feel lesser to other girls. You should be polite and pray to God He send you your love.

And I think you should not think about death please. You seem like a good person who upheld her modesty by not indulging in a promiscuous lifestyle))

Summeroflove · Answer

If you don’t want a relationship nothing wrong with that

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I don’t blame you. Cheating and divorce are both at an all time high now all cause of the internet and all the options it gives people. Hella opportunities for people to cheat

SlothySlob · Answer

For some it is. If you can manage, more power to you.

Shamalien · Answer

Be careful what you wish for…I do not think that is what you truly want

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Most people do.

trina_x · Answer

nope live your life how you want

Andres77 · Answer

I hope you get what you want

es20490446e · Answer

You're saying nonsense.

Anonymous · Answer

People usually do die single.

LazerBean · Answer

Okay.

Anonymous · Answer

Better to be alone then hurt by anyone

Blackcupcake · Answer

nope

Emanon25 · Answer

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