Listen buddy, she obviously still has some feelings for you! Duh! Maybe she just wants to be friends with you or misses your company. Some people need sapce, time and being with a new person to realise what they have lost. But don't always think that people get in contact to get back with you. Maybe she does want you back. Who knows?
Youre not over her after 7 months and you still love her, but at the same time you clashed. How comes?
Is it because you are not over her and that you still miss her that you are being so hostile towards her?
Some people do change, but as I don't know your background or why she 'wont change', I can't really give you an answer as to wether she could have changed.
Why don't you text her and tell the the truth. Tell her that you don't want to talk to her because...yadda yadda yadda-BE TRUTHFUL!
I know you may think that she has got the message but if she really does love you after all of this time then I think it would be decent of you to let her know, from yourself, why you don't want to talk to her. See it as some kind of closure for her.
Good luck.
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well my ex boyfriend from 3 years ago still calls me and wants me back. how this is and why I have no idea. we broke up because he cheated and got his ex pregnant. this was when I was 15 now that I'm 18 years old I can't stand to see his number on my phone. I use to be so madly in love with him. one- I was younger and he was older. two- he took advantage once again because I was younger. now I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he still calls me, him knowing I have a boyfriend and always asks how I'm doing and how are we doing, and he just says how much he misses me. its weird and I hate it. I use to always go back to him when I just found out he cheated but because I thought I love him. eww was totally wrong.
trust me you learn to get over them, and it will take a while you don't break up and just stop loving them it does take time. but one day someone will walk into your life and make you forget bout her, and not ever think of going back. your best believe that. just be patient.:D
Well she obviously still wants to either be with you, or friends. Maybe all she wants is to see how your doing? I say you should answer next time she calls or texts. just ask her how she's doing, and what's she's trying to get by calling and such. Be nice, and understanding. I'm sure she's not over you either, if she was she probably wouldn't be calling. But, you never know. Just give her a chance. I know that if it were me I would appreciate it. Good luck!
She sees that you are ignoring her, and that is driving her nuts. She is probably like you and hasn't gotten over you and misses you. Also, she is probably worried you have met someone else and doesn't want that to happen. She may be regretting breaking up with you and wants you back, but at the very least she definitely misses you.
man, welcome abroad.
My girl broke up with me for 2 months now.
She still calls and texts. One day I decide to call her back.
Eventually, we met and hung out.
Later that night she said she wants me back I told her let's be friend.
She said she'll make me fall in love with her again.
I told her please don't. keep it this way.
She told me that I'm such a jerk and doesn't worth enough for her.
Now she still calls. You know, to me the friends part's over too.
I gave her that friendship back after all the pain.
That's all she can say when I don't take her back.
You be wise, dude.
Love someone who loves you.
Give her a chance but not too many.
hey bingo dude.i broke up with my ex on my bday too.and its also in may.but its different because I told my ex outright that I'm nvr gonna talk to her anymore.i find that ur ex is a bit weird because she calls calls calls for wat?wat exactly is she calling you for?to disturb you issit?or maybe because she has no pride and she wants you back?weird
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She's nuts! Stay away! Honestly, it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. If she broke up with you, she should really stop calling. Maybe she thought she'd find better and hasn't. Maybe she wants to string you along, which is quite cruel. Either way, continue to ignore her. Like I said, she sounds crazy or she really misses you that much and can't let go? Still crazy.
she still digs you. and maybe all she can have is your friendship, and that's better than not having you at all.
and maybe she thinks she's showing you that she's still thinking about you and wants to see if you still care. and may want you to ask her back out, even though she should.well if there truly isn't any reason to be calling you then, she should stop unless you did something wrong.
Im not too sure. I would only be texting a guy or calling him in an annoying manner if he pissed me off, so I don't know, maybe she's into you or she's very emotionalbro I feel you, my ex of 3 yrs. pulled this same act ... if I don't pick up, she emails, if I don't respond, I get letters ... stay strong bro ... you can put her on the ignore list on your phone, but I'm sure you know this.
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