I started dating her in December of last year and she broke up with me in May of this year. On the day of my birthday, no less. I'm not the type of guy that calls and begs for another chance. If you break up with me, cool, Ill leave you alone. But you do the same. I won't call, text, or show up. Ill disappear but I expect you to do the same. Two weeks after the breakup she sent me a text and asked me to meet her over that weekend for coffee. She never called and instead sent me a text about how "it was too soon for coffee." I basically never replied to any of her texts since or her many phone calls. She eventually changed her cell phone number and called me one day. Not recognizing the number, I picked up. I told her I only picked up because I didn't know who it was, and she hung up. Since then she's called and I've never answered. Then she'll stop calling/texting for a month or two and then will call/text at random. 7 months have gone by. I'm not over her and I still miss her. But she's never going to change her way of being which is why we broke up. We clashed. Why is she still calling me after I never once have sought her out?