How do I make it my mission to actively change my dating situation amd my sex life? Also, stop having negative thoughts about myself?

[poneglyphs]

I having this problem all of my life. It comes and goes. Last year I never went on any dates or did much with women in general. I felt incompetent with them and felt like most wouldn't like me because I didn't drive, wasn't independent, or worked in my career. So, that's why I didn't talked to nobody and focused on myself. Was that the right approach?

[Anonymous]

'I didn't drive, wasn't independent, or worked in my career.'

You've answered your own question. Get on your life purpose... whatever you were born to do. If you don't know what that is, find it! Women should never be a mans top priority. His kingdom, his life purpose, his financial freedom and his mission should be. Also note that career is not necessarily the same as your life purpose. It takes time to find and as you waste time dating and chasing women, that is time that could have been spent discovering who you truly are. Society and media teaches men to chase women, do not listen. Chase money and purpose instead.

Ask yourself this. Why doesn't society use it's media power and influence to encourage all men to chase their life purpose...

It's the same reason why society encourages consumption of porn...

[RealMarek]

The answers won’t really change no matter how many times you ask the same questions. If you can work your way into a better job, or gain skills, then you are making progress. If you can save money, you are making progress. If you can achieve a healthy body mass index, you will probably be in the top 20% for fitness. That would be progress. You need to do some of these things. Go do them.

[exitseven]

It depends. You say you "worked on yourself". Did you make any progress? did you get a drivers license? Did you move out of moms basement? Have you made some kind of professional goals? If you can answer yes then it is the right approach.

[poneglyphs]

No, not really I just had fun and went to concerts also traveled

[NathanDavis]

leave your mothers house

acquire all responsibilities for yourself, on yourself

[poneglyphs]

That's kinda hard with the job I currently have but will try

[NathanDavis]

life is hard... learn it

get used to it

get better at it, and then the rest might follow up

[moviedude714]

I don't know what to say about this