Is it weird that my ex wants to set me up with someone?

[Anonymous]

She says she knows the perfect woman for me and wants to set up a date for us.

[Aerissa_Jade]

It depends, did you stay friends, was the break up bad?

I say this cause I have an ex I setup with a friend and then they got married, I was a bridesmaid at her wedding and they had a baby in June, we are still friends.

They are not the only one's... I've been setup by ex's before too.

If your still friends, she is hoping you can meet someone else too. Unless the breakup was bad due to lots of fighting, abuse or cheating... I'd go for it, at the very least you get a few dates, if it doesn't work out. No bid deal... if it works out, you might have someone you really like and get along great with.

[Asker]

We stayed friends, she knows this woman personally and feels we'd be more compatible as a couple.

[Msputiton]

No. She moved on and wants to see you happy

[ArrowheadSW]

Some people just like playing "matchmaker". The fact they say that they found the perfect match for you, *usually* means absolutely nothing. I suppose in some cases they might know what they are talking about. I find most matchmaking to be annoying. LOL

[Asker]

I can live with being a pawn in matchmaking, you only live once. LOL

[ArrowheadSW]

Ah OK. No harm if the "matchee" isn't your type. And you never know, she might be a good match.

[Guy13]

Oh yeah, that's the set-up of a lifetime... really?

[Asker]

You mean like a trap?

[Guy13]

Yes but one I would be willing to walk in just to find out how much she knows. If I lean right left or straight in type things etc...

[Asker]

Hmm, I was thinking she might either be trying to get me off her back or maybe feels guilty about the break up, or both.

[Guy13]

It is a form of Testing in Woman 101 class. Still though, to suggest it is not the quality of a woman I would be seeking. I would not be thinking Wifey and Mother but that's just me. And the other girl would simply be a physical and discover if they are in on it together thing...

[Asker]

I'd be thinking wifey but not mother, I don't want kids.

[Guy13]

Alright... if she works for you then go get that Ring. ;-)

[spartan55]

You would be wise to avoid that like a live 🐊 alligator.

[Tracker1958]

Yes, sound like she still wants to be in control of you.