Is it weird to still mess with any 18 year olds in any way if you’re a woman who’s 24 going on 25?

[Anonymous]

I have 18-30 for my dating range.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

The other day we had a trip and we were approached by two hot guys, one was German, one was Brazilian.

They were really cute.

But when we asked about their ages, they said 27, while in truth they were 19. We found out later.

I was attracted to them, had I known they were 27, I would be interested in the Brazilian one, as he was so cute, charming and nice.

Later on, I found out, everyone I was the most physically attracted to fell into the age category of 18-23. That’s a weird foundation.

However, the emotional attraction was there with men over 25.

I don’t know why.

But that’s definitely possible to be attracted to 18-19 years old. That was always the age I liked, guess it hasn’t changed much since I got years, because I get attracted to someone and then I find out they are 19-20. I guess that’s just my type, or the type I am the most attracted to.

[Asker]

If that’s you in the photo you actually look younger than 26, you look 19-22 years old honestly but I feel like the attraction itself is normal, we’re human we can’t help sometimes who we wind up feeling attracted to, as long as it’s not something illegal or bad then that’s all that matters but the guys are over age and there isn’t any issue there. As people grow older particularly over college age 22 or 23 as in 24, 25, 26, 27, 28 etc it’s frowned upon in society or heads start to shake if people our ages mid 20s find younger guys or people attractive but men have been doing this for decades and decades marrying women as young as 18 even 16! In my opinion of us older girls want to date or have sex with a younger guy it’s totally our business at the end of the day.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, exactly.

That Brazilian guy was so hot and we had such an amazing chemistry, but when I realized he was actually younger, I rejected him. Not because of age, but because I somehow felt afraid of the strong feeling I had for him. Don’t know if it makes sense.

That I regret to be honest, because he’s the man I finally got attracted to, after my break up I’ve not been able to feel that strong attraction to any men.

So, yep. Don’t let age stop you, as long as he’s a legal age, if you feel attracted, enjoy. It’s not like it happens everyday when you get that feeling.

So, yep. I like younger guys, I just like guys who tend to be younger and I have every right to like that.

[kylee2437]

Honestly for myself I find it pretty odd just because I look at 18 year olds as babies. They just graduated high school and I’ve been out of high school for almost a decade. When I was 18-20 I dated guys that were 25/26 , however if you are potentially looking for something serious I’d stay away from the straight out of high school age.

[Asker]

True I feel like guys do it all the time wit younger girls but they wouldn’t take them serious either I think it’s dependent upon the person, a young guy mostly any young guy is thrilled probably by an older woman liking him

[Asker]

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[kylee2437]

@asker a few of them tried taking me serious , but I was in a stage of life where I didn’t want anything pretty serious. That’s kind of why I mentioned steering clear if you want something serious in the end because an 18 year old boy is probably not going to want to be tied down especially to someone significantly older

[Alex8736]

whatever makes you happy. it's your life and lifes too short so have fun 😁

[abc3643]

Go for it! The boys will love you!

[Stevefiveo]

Not weird. Date whoever you want.