Is it wrong that I have a strong desire for a Dominant Woman?

[Timid-guy]

So i desire a Dominant woman because i'm a shy and submissive guy and kinda wishy washy so i need a woman who will take charge so we can have a female led relationship.

Alpha female

i've always been too shy to chase women can take charge, i don't think or feel like an average guy, i'm not a hunter, i'm a prey.

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I can't take charge with women and I don't know why this is, is it just my nature?

[Random_g]

Being shy is confidence/experience thing, not being a planner is personal/normal thing.. and being submissive is a bed thing

Are you looking for a dominant woman only in bed ( all the time dominant) ? or just a leader to plan things and you can follow? , or just someone to approach you first then when you get comfortable you can take it from there?

Because I think all the three above can be found separately... but them combined ! I don't know buddy.

[Timid-guy]

Someone to approach me first then when I get comfortable I can take it from there.

When it comes to bedroom action variety is the spice of life and no one should be submissive all the time, that would be very inconvenient, like you said it's just a bed thing, kink and nothing more.

[Random_g]

So you are not looking for a dominant woman but just someone out going who can make the first move, that doesn't necessarily mean "dominance" ... And there is a lot for girls out there who are like this, so out going and maybe extroverted... Me personally I won't make the first move, part of it because I'm an introvert so I would prefer someone to make a move on me but if I ever liked someone at least I would present myself as interested so they could know that I am available , not just sit home and expect someone to make a move on me.. Did you get what I mean? .. You can be a prey, but the prey that get hunted is usually the one available so even if you can't make the first move at least present yourself as someone who's available and I'm sure there would be girls who would make the first move.

[Timid-guy]

You're absolutely right, any tips on how to look more available when I go out? Maybe smile I guess? Anything else?

[Random_g]

I'm not sure since I'm a prey myself.. but It depends on how you know yourself and your charm so you can present it, in the end they take what you afford, so know what you can afford first,... But I'm not sure.. how about you ask it here in GAG and I will follow you to see girls answers as well..

It's an interesting topic tbh, and I wanted to ask it myself but it would show that a female is asking so the answer will come from men mostly

[Timid-guy]

Got'ya

[PBandJ_Nerd]

There's nothing wrong with it at all. Everyone has their preferences or interests in what they want in a partner. It might be harder to find a dominant woman but they are out there.

[Timid-guy]

The problem is that I never make the first step and women always expect the guy to make the first move even if they are dominant.

[TJ1892]

That's just a confidence thing, hang in there and have confidence In yourself.

[Phoenix98]

If that's what does it for ya. It's a little odd in my opinion but not wrong in any way.

[Berethor]

Good luck with that, it only 4%, even most stronger women prefer a stronger man.

[Timid-guy]

So I basically have two choices, continue being shy and submissive to women and therefore a single incel or become more dominant and assertive and get lots of sex and love.

[Berethor]

Yea more or less, as your chances of finding a dominant woman are very slim.

[Timid-guy]

Makes sense that Dominatrixes exist and men have to pay them for a session, it's because it's a fantasy and very rare to find in real life as most women are not dominant like you said and I feel that even dominant women want a strong man.

[janeks]

As a feminist woman, I support you all the way

[Timid-guy]

Thank You Queen, You are the best ☺️

[OliwiaS]

Not wrong. but it might be a little troublesome for you

[Timid-guy]

Why Miss?

[Anonymous]

Not at all
I have been in female-led relationships before it was the best time in my life

[Timid-guy]

Did she approach you and ask you out?

[Opinion Owner]

Wasn't exactly asked out but yeah they approached

[Timid-guy]

I'm so glad women like that exist.

[TJ1892]

I mean I woudnt call it "wrong" I guess it's just your type.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with being a beta. Find a Dominant Female and surrender to her. Total power exchange. Live to serve her and you'll never be happier. Listen, obey, do.

[Leopard23]

Yes and she will spank you for it

[Timid-guy]

Well that's what I want so is it really a punishment? Lol

[Anonymous]

If your girlfriend demanded you to give her your money, you would do it? ... you mean that type of dominant, right?

[Timid-guy]

Not exactly LOL 😆

[Mamasanma]

No it's common

[Timid-guy]

Have you seen couples where the woman is in charge?

[Mamasanma]

Yeah

[Timid-guy]

That's so hot, at least to me.

[Anonymous]

Alpha females are the best

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, that means you are a beta male.

[Timid-guy]

Why is being a beta male a bad thing? And please don't be a misogynistic pig 🥺

[Kelly6]

Nothing wrong there

[KatherineJ]

You do you.