Should I stand by him through his confusion?

[Anonymous]

Hello! So I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month. He seems to push me off here and there when we aren’t in person, but when we are in person we always have an amazing time. I talked to him and simply asked him if he is still on the same page of wanting a relationship and everything. He said he is and he does like me but he is generally very scared to get into a relationship again. I do like him a lot and I think he does like me , he just has feelings to sort out and he is glad that I talked to him about it instead of just ghosting / getting angry at him. What should I do?

[slatyb]

Date other people 8ntil he is not so confused. Never wait for someone who says they are "scared", "confused", "not ready" etc.

[Asker]

I just feel like dating other people gets messy , not really a huge fan of the idea. I didn’t even really go out of my way to want to date when I met him

[Justneedtokno]

Lol 😂 if a man is confused, then you let him be in his confusion by himself so he figure things out and you go and do things that you need to do for yourself to make sure that you’re secure

[Justneedtokno]

Thank you if he comes back and he is ready and you are excepting it’s on you if you wanna make that decision to keep them

[LazerBean]

Nope. Find someone who is going down the same road as you, at the same pace.

[es20490446e]

Translating for you:
please don't leave me, that would be too much for me.

[Asker]

Is it worth standing by a guy like this though

[es20490446e]

You can only know by communicating clearly with him.

Versus expecting him to figure things out by himself.

You know, men aren't as intuitive as women.

[RavVid]

I think it is best t see how it goes for a while.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, stand by your Man

[Asker]

He’s not my man, but potentially