First date ideas?

[LissyMissy6]

I confessed to my crush and turns out he has feelings for me too. So what's a good first date idea? What should I wear? How to stay calm and not sweat? I'm just so excited and nervous lol.

[Guy13]

This is good for all ages if not wanting "Pocketbook Princess" young lady reputation: You are old enough to drink where I am.

1. Warm (45 degrees/bundled?), City park/Carousel.,

2. Paddle boat with duck/geese and feed with old crusted bread trail in water..."they just liked us" under picture on SM. No paddle boat, eh, feed some anyway... bad boy/girl.

I have a Rose Garden SO dead roses around 60 varieties on quarter acre without flowers and dead looking beg for Summer renaissance flowers and SM picture updates come July... more pics and close enough to 6 months. ;-)

3. Swing which he will love pushing the "swing seat" and a trusted old lady to video 15 seconds (Carousel and swing too) and take a 100 pictures. DAYLIGHT Date.

4. I can walk to downtown, around sunset, from there so one Fancy Martini/cocktail and dessert after red dye bleeding vendor NOT WOKE hot dogs full of Nasty crap at City Park.

35.00 without drinks and 95.00 drinks, one shared dessert, and full day of "lifetime like" pics. 100.00 is worth all that. If he's so ignorant to not understand this then give him one free pass...

[PrettyPriya]

Oh how fun!! Congrats. When is the big day or don't you have it set yet? Well, a lot is going to depend on where you live, climate (if you can do outdoor stuff) and a lot of other things. Also, what are some things that he likes? Just in general...

I would be happy to give some suggestions if you have more info on your guy's likes and such. Also, it is about what you like to do as well. Here are some things that I would recommend.

Make sure it is something that you do where you can talk. Don't go to a movie or something like that where your interaction will be limited. You really want to use this to get to know each other. That is half the fun!

You don't have to go crazy and spend a lot of money to do something. Keep it simple. The first date with my husband was a simple lunch. It gave us the chance to talk and enjoy a good meal. I would not change that for the world if I did it over. It was perfect.

As far as the nerves, practice deep breathing. Slow your heart rate. If you practice now, it sort of becomes second nature and allows you to calm yourself. Don't be nervous though! He likes you too and will be equally as nervous. 🙂

[LissyMissy6]

Thanks for taking your time.
He likes video games. I like them too. Maybe we can drink coffee or have a simple lunch as you said.

What should I wear though?

[PrettyPriya]

So the video games is great that you both like them. That isn't a good first date though because not much interaction while doing that. What is it good for is down the road if you two hit it off. Something like that you can do together, which is awesome.

What is the weather like where you are at? (as far as what to wear). I always go conservative and bring something in case it is cold wherever I am going. If you keep it casual lunch or coffee, really anything goes. Me? I would probably wear jeans or black pants and simple button down top. Keep it light and casual.

Not sure what your style is, but no need to go crazy dress up for simple coffee. That is for nice dinner or something down the road.

[LissyMissy6]

It is snowy but not so cold.

[PrettyPriya]

I would go with what you normally would wear out with friends if you were doing the same thing with them. My climate is a lot different from yours. I take it you are from the US. Here, it is cold if it is 50-60F for me.

Since you both like video games, a good thing to bring up if conversation stalls or you need something to jumpstart it. You both like that. Plus, you can kinda hint/nudge that maybe would be fun to get together to play games as well. Leaves you an opening for additional meetups.

[LissyMissy6]

Alright thanks. One final question. When should de date be? Like, is tomorrow so early? I wanna be his girlfriend asap but don't wanna ruin everything.

[PrettyPriya]

No need to rush. Think of it this way, you both know you like each other. If you can't wait until the weekend when you have more time, maybe suggest "sometime this week" and see if he suggests a day. That way, you can kind of get an idea how eager he is as well.

While I would not rush it, there is nothing that is too soon if you both want it. I be he is equally excited. It probably will come down to schedule and trying to find a time when you are both not busy.

[LissyMissy6]

Alright thanks. I will ask him out tonight via text.

[PrettyPriya]

Good luck and most important thing... have fun!

[Bethany22]

He won't remember anything you wear, so just go with the classic red close-fitting shirt and a pencil skirt. Although men don't notice what women wear, they do seem to prefer those things. He also probably won't care where you go, so just find a place that has big proportions for whatever it is you're having (i. e, coffee, food).

[SnowedIn]

Yay for you! Congrats!

Go to a place you're both comfortable at. Don't be too fancy or too new: if you do, you'll both be nervous and that wrecks the mood or you'll be worried about logistics and not using the wrong fork and it's just blah.

So, coffee shop. Ice cream. Dessert. Movie (although the downside is you really can't talk). If he's into it, museum. Picnic lunch in a park. Maybe a sports game, but that has the potential for craziness. A meal somewhere not necessarily McDonald's but maybe like sushi or Panera -- in other words, simple and comfortable.

As for clothes, wear what you feel good in: when you feel good, you'll be comfortable and confident. If you're comfortable and confident, you'll be hot to any guy. But, suggestions: jeans and a sweater. Leggings and a hoodie. Blouse and skirt or slacks if you're going somewhere nice. But, in all seriousness: just be you.

Not sweat? You probably can't control that so deodorant before you go!

Best wishes with this!

[Avicenna]

Find out what he likes to do most for fun and see if that meshes with your idea of what is most fun. Avoid activities in which you are not focused on each other, i. e., avoid concerts, sporting events, movies or other forms of entertainment.

[bean2k21]

Here are some first date ideas that you may consider:

1) Coffee or lunch: A low-key coffee or lunch date is a great way to get to know each other in a relaxed setting.
2) Take a walk: If the weather is good, a walk in a park or nature trail can be a great way to enjoy each other's company and take in the surroundings.
3) Visit a museum or art gallery: If you both have an interest in art or culture, visiting a museum or art gallery can be a great way to spend the day together.
4) Attend a concert or show: If you both enjoy live entertainment, attending a concert, theater performance, or comedy show can be a fun and exciting experience.
5) Go for a picnic: A picnic in a local park can be a great way to spend time together, share a meal, and enjoy the outdoors.

Remember, the most important thing is to be yourself, have fun, and enjoy each other's company. To stay calm, here are some tips:

1) Practice mindfulness: Focus on the present moment and take deep breaths to help calm your nerves.
2) Engage in self-care: Make sure to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally, before spending time with your crush. This can include things like getting enough sleep, exercising, and eating well.
3) Reframe your thoughts: Try to reframe any negative or anxious thoughts into positive ones. For example, instead of thinking "I'm going to mess this up," think "I'm going to do my best, be myself, and have fun."
4) Take things slow: Don't put pressure on yourself or the situation. Enjoy the moment and let things unfold naturally.

Remember, your crush is just another person, and there's no need to be overly anxious or nervous around them. Just be yourself and have fun!

[elizamichale1]

I would wear 1 of these

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[LissyMissy6]

too revealing

[elizamichale1]

If it was possible i would love to reveal even more tbh lol
But this gets guys going... n its all in ur control whether to keep them on leash or just get on with u

[LissyMissy6]

Too revealing especially for me because im kinda wide on the hips and i would freeze lol

[elizamichale1]

Well tht would make it even more sexier for him n i can promise u will be having best date ever

[smølf]

Congrats on your mutual feelings with your crush! Here are some tips for your first date:

• First Date Idea: Choose something that both of you enjoy or have talked about wanting to try. Maybe it's a picnic in a park, trying a new restaurant, or taking a scenic walk. The goal is to have a fun and relaxed time together.
• Outfit: Wear something that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Don't overthink it and stick to what you normally wear and enjoy.
• Staying Calm: Try to focus on the present moment and enjoy the experience. Take deep breaths and remind yourself that it's okay to be nervous, it's a sign of excitement. Focus on the conversation and getting to know each other better.

Remember, the most important thing is to have fun and be yourself. Good luck!

[chrissykerdock]

wear the shortest dress/skirt you can find... bare thighs some heels maybe make up and perfume... be prepared to give him a blowjob so you can get a 2nd date for sure... but only give him a blowjob if he kisses you... if he doesn't do that then don't bother he's not worth giving one to in that case.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I'd personally love a visit to thematic bistro like Retro restaurant or a bar, or go bowling, that's fun. You'll get even closer and will have fun while doing that.

I'd suggest something that's your style but just tiny bits alterered. Like maybe a shinier pair of earrings, make the hair look a bit more done up. Nothing extra though

GL!

[bowenw]

Try to do something fun with lots of distractions like bowling if you are concerned about awkward silences. Wear something appropriate for the venue/activity. He likely won't care what you wear. Take a shower before and use antiperspirant. He'll likely be just a nervous as you. Try to just be yourself and enjoy your time together.

[emmaa1]

i don't think first dates should be a big deal, should be something casual no efforts and so natural. I'd be okay with just having coffee somewhere cosy.

[David_Bayer]

Why not try a cooking class for your first date? It's a unique and enjoyable way to spend time together, learn a new skill, and bond over good food. You can choose a type of cuisine or cooking style that you both love, or step out of your comfort zone and try something new. This type of date creates a relaxed and fun atmosphere, and is a perfect opportunity to get to know each other better.

[Anonymous]

Panera or Starbucks somewhere in public have lunch than after it walk around somewhere like a center or a park

[ThomasDavid1989]

Nothing should change. He already likes you for you. All that was said was "now you're official", basically. That's why guys and girls can't ever be "just friends". THERE'S NO SUCH THING

[LissyMissy6]

what?

[ThomasDavid1989]

Just sayin'

[Nikki1989]

Say that to all the male friends I have. Jeez!

[ThomasDavid1989]

@Nikki1989 hahahahaha

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's important to stay calm and it will all come together.

[Lucy68]

For me it was food and walking around, you know getting to know each other honestly

[humanearth]

Museums are always great way to spend a day with someone

Dress like you would normally if you were do dress casually

[Phoenix98]

Just do something casual that’d you’d both enjoy.

coffee and a walk

mini golf

Fishing

whatever it may be.

[analgesicgal]

stay calm and not sweat : truth is, you might very likely be jittering. wear something is loose on the sleeves and legs so it wouldn't be so visible as much.

[supercutebutt]

Wear absolutely nothing and engage in the act of coitus. :)

[CountryWanderer]

Coffee/lunch; a walk somewhere; something light and fun

[krin_m]

Take it easy, and either do an activity you both enjoy or go for a nice dinner somewhere! Enjoy the company without expectations and let things evolve. The time is on your side!

[Makeushiver]

Where- or at least what type of setting, i. e. rural, suburban, urban are you both in?