I've known this girl through our shared sport for almost 10 years and we've always been friendly but never really talked or really friends. We worked together teaching swim lessons and lifeguarding last summer and we started talking more but only at work. We're going to be working together again this summer but more often with longer shifts.
A couple months ago she added me on snapchat and up until recently we were talking pretty much all day (we had the red best friends heart) until she got busy and we stopped talking as much. We still talk a decent amount but obviously not to the same extent.
Right now we're both in college at different schools so we can't hang out but I want to ask her to hang out once we get home in a little over a week. I don't want to make it too much like a date because we have that kind of relationship but I don't really know what else to call it. I was thinking grab lunch or dinner at Panera or something low-key like that and then spend a couple hours talking or if she's down go for a drive or like mini-golfing.
Is this a good idea? Do you have any other suggestions of things I could ask her to do?
A couple months ago she added me on snapchat and up until recently we were talking pretty much all day (we had the red best friends heart) until she got busy and we stopped talking as much. We still talk a decent amount but obviously not to the same extent.
Right now we're both in college at different schools so we can't hang out but I want to ask her to hang out once we get home in a little over a week. I don't want to make it too much like a date because we have that kind of relationship but I don't really know what else to call it. I was thinking grab lunch or dinner at Panera or something low-key like that and then spend a couple hours talking or if she's down go for a drive or like mini-golfing.
Is this a good idea? Do you have any other suggestions of things I could ask her to do?
