No. Because you only found out by snooping. Which was wrong. Since it was wrong for you to have come across this information. You've gotta just suck-it-up and deal. You have no grounds to confront him about anything. If it were me, I wouldn't be telling you about how I'm gonna be more romantic in the future. We're getting into a very serious talk about boundaries. And unacceptable behavior.
This sucks for you. But any pain it causes you is your own fault entirely.
I see your point about the difference in his behavior. I understand why you find it upsetting. I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't be upset.
But... YOU are still the one who is wrong here. You would have been better to never have seen those messages. It's your own fault you know. You need to suffer this in silence (I have NEVER said that to someone before).
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It’s definitely important to tell a partner your feelings!! But it’s just as important on HOW you tell them your feelings, try not to get into a screaming match and if he starts over reacting it might be best to step back for a minute and the once both cool down remind him that it’s not ok for him to do that to you, yelling never helps in an argument
Tell him that you wish to receive more loving and cute messages. Be open about your feelings and wishes and well communicate.
But going through his phone was pretty awful of you, it's his phone and his privacy
You can and should tell him what you like in a relationship. But you shouldn't confront him about what you found when you were snooping through his phone. If anything, he should be upset with you.
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First love is always more romantic, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you..
No you broke his trust in fact he probably be angry with you
That’s how to end ur relationship, total breach of his privacy
No. That will end your relationship.
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