What should be the first date like?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

A date a really enjoyed and it was only a one time event, I met a disabled guy and wanted to be his friend cause I like to help people and he thought I wanted to date him, we hung out at the mall, ate at Burger King, went to a few stores then travelled to a local bookstore cafe for coffee and talk. When it became clear he could not take no for an answer, I cut off communication. I wanted to be his friend, not a girlfriend. But it was a nice date, he bought me food, offered to buy my clothes, we had positive discussions about our lives, had happy conversations about our family at the cafe, took a walk by the library in the nice sun and drank coffee and he was very nice and respectful and friendly, but I did not want to risk the genetic problems of dating a disabled guy if I had kids with him.

[Guy13]

Don’t overthink. Have a good time. Tell some jokes. Hopefully, you have a sense of her expectations

[Anonymous]

Just talk to her and get to know her